2012 WHAT A YEAR!!!

Rebecca Masina

 Everything happens for a reason id like to believe so. This year I never planned a lot for it. I just decided that things will happen if they have to happen. No rush, no push... Mostly I've learnt a lot and seen a lot. Life wont always give you what you want it to give you. things do go wrong. Well for my side I believe God has plans for all of us. Things may go wrong at the beginning or in middle, that is not because God is punish you,  but because He has His own reasons. He might be protecting you from lots of things. He takes His time so you must be patient. No one is perfect we all make mistakes and learn from them. This year had brought me teas, smiles, love and hope that next year things will work out. Dome say the world was ending, I min tjerrr.... are they God sent or something?. Always remember to put your self first. Your happiness should be considered. love your self and give respect to your self and so will others do. An adults should respect the young one so that the also the young ones do learn how to respect and treat others with love and respect. Family is important, your education is important, your true friends are important. Aim to reach for the goals that you have set for your life. Do not take discrimination's into considerations. people will always talk no matter what bad or good you do. Stay positive and believe in God. Nothing can defeat God. 2012 a year it was. lost loved ones and gained some of the good things. Fights where there and will still be there. RESPECT

TRUE FRIENDSHIP

Having a friend that is always there for you no matter the size of the problem you might be facing it is what i call true friendship. Your true friend would never in their lifetime try to judge you, but the best that they can do is to help you into seeing the light if they see that you might be going the wrong way. I mean no body is perfect and no one has ever been close to perfect but we all do wish and pray to be one day. True friends are there to guide. They are like your second family if not then they are like your second better half. We all have our own hardships and we all go through a lot but judgement is not what we should engage in. In my own world, i don't know about yours, My true friend is my family, my sister, my better half. When ever in need they will always be there. If your friend manages to talk about you with other people surely he or she is not for keeps but only buying the friendship. Honor and respect the friends you have and better know who are real and who are not. some may stab you right at the back... watch out

REBECCA AND KHOMOTSO

khomotso and Rebecca

A friend in need is a friend indeed right? Well this one is for keeps. Ive come a long way with Khomotso and nothing has been easy in those days but we share a special connection for each other. I do have friends all that but Khomotso is just someone else.. way too special. The both of us have something special to share with each other. She is always there when i need her and i believe i am also. We met in our first year in high school, though we were not that close but came our grade 10 that's when the special connection began and never stopped growing. We strong and both believe in God. We do have our own differences and do have fight and arguments but at the end we are still friends. She loves talking a lot and very entertaining, a free spirited person but her friend called me lol am very quiet and shy...am very glad to have her, shes a blessing and i hope our friendship will grow more and be more strong too. My srory, my friend

A PRAYER DOES IT ALL

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Nothing beats a prayer. You can go and do anything and everything that you want and like to do, but all in all those things they will need a prayer. One has been through a lot, especially this year of 2012. with the heart that I have and with the love and appreciation of a prayer, I did what I have to do and here I am today. I am  who I am today because of the prayer. God loves us all and we also in return have to thank Him for all he has done for us. He kept us safe, gave us gifts and love and taugt us how to live and always pray. You will not go anywhere if you do all the things including the prayer if your heart is still dark and gossip about athers and bad name other people. A prayer should be done when one is free and doesn not holg grudges to other people. a free spirited person. we all have  and go through tough life and have to make even tough decisions in our lives but God will always be with us if we ask Him to do so. Nothing beats a prayer...

M Y OCTOBER "Libra Month"

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A month well spend indeed. Loved everything about it. Despite the fact that it was my birth month most things came to life. I can happily declare that's since the beginning of the month i only got sad once and it was for a day. My God does miracles and I will forever Thank Him for what He does for me. I am where I am today because of Him. This month has bought nothing but a good month to me. It is a breast cancer awareness month and I am proud to say I also did and still support the cancer awareness. Guess what? Its a Halloween  month lol...Al the best and weired things happen in October baby, no Wonder I am weird my self.My goal is people associate November with COPD awareness month as much as they notice October with breast cancer and pink. That's be a great thing if it happened. The fact that COPD kills more people than breast cancer and diabetes put together should raise some red flags. I did not even realise that this is the month end of October till I was told so. That shows how hard i was enjoying my month. October..October...October yes October.I'm so glad I live in a world where there are Octobers.”“October proved a riot a riot to the senses and climaxed those giddy last weeks before Halloween.” I am  proud Libra thnks you...

TURNING THAT YEAR

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Finally 21, and legally able to do everything I've been doing since 15.LOL... This has been a year and finally i am the year that i always thought and wondered how will I be when I reach that year and how will I be acting like. I always thought that when you reach the year 21, then you become someone or something. lol it was all in the mind. Being 21 doesn't mean that you should go wild or turn into some wild something that cannot be controlled or something, though it is a special year that one should remember. Everyone wants to turn 21 in style, celebrate it. it is known for mostly Africans that when a child turns 21 they should make a huge celebration for the child and give her the key to show a symbol of growth and new opportunities coming ahead. Some say its a key to show that you can do anything you want, even going wild. for me I think its a key of love and for doors to be opened, good opportunities. doors of love, honour, respect, and prosperity.Because time itself is like a spiral, something special happens on your birthday each year: The same energy that God invested in you at birth is present once again.
I turned 21st on the 04th of 0ctober it was Thursday, well nothing much took place, a few wishes were made by me and friends with sweet messages and what not. I am happy even though nothing big happened. its said when you already have given birth before you can turn 21 then ,your family cannot do a celebration for you as you have given your self the key before the time and not by the right people. for me its a different story, and time will tell. I thank God that today I am who I am and I am still a good child and still remain Blessed.

EVENT WELL EXECUTED

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We all had fun and we still going to have more even next year. I never thought that I will pull through with the event, but yes with the living God i did. support from daddy was and is still the greatest. Not everyone has the love that i have now. I consider my self blessed and I ma  thankful for everything. everyone was there to enjoy and celebrate. the event was a success and i would like to thank everybody whom participated and gave hope to the people of the centre. it is not easy to leave alone and have no one to call family. theses people have found a home and have found love here at the centre. they feel free and mostly appreciated.

Rea Gola still need the support of the public as they are not well established withe their organisation. the organisation has been there for more than ten years but it not recognised. they can use your full support to  make the lives of the needy to be at ease."Diatla dia thlatswana"-hands help each other. one good that you do today can add a blessing from God.

JOYS OF BEING A MASINA

Rebecca Masina

YES!!! I am a Maisna and am proud about about that. Its not for the fact that my name is popular or anything but I appreciate being a Masina and that's it.looking great by the way Miss Masina. As a Masina it is our duty to love and appreciate ourselves and others. We learn respect, love, and leadership as we grow up. Elders do really play a big role in our lives. We dress as ladies if one is a lady and a man also dress like a man. No confusion there. Every elder person around us, family or not, is a parent and also those who are young are our family too and we need to respect all of them.lol The Masina's are given in their veins. We born with it.

"A creative man is motivated by the desire to achieve, not by the desire to beat others" that is our way to go. Family comes first no matter what. Masina comes in different ways and mine is Venda.

Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy, and believe in your self. As a Masina we are given a chance to grow and reach for our dreams and if we fail then we have to fight till we get it. We are taught never to give up. We value life,and people and we do take part in making the environment a better place to be.

Always continue the climb. It is possible for you to do whatever you choose, if you first get to know who you are and are willing to work with a power that is greater than ourselves to do it.  BEING A MASINA...

ME AND SOCIAL MEDIA

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Do I really need to let the whole world know about who I am, what I do, who I am with and what I am doing and with who? really??no ways am I gonna do that. you can know my whole curriculum vitae but not a plus me. I am not hiding anything from anyone but the less you know about me the better. Why should I put my life on the line?. social media is all about socialising and that's it. there can be a lot that you can talk about in the social media but not me. if its me then let be me enough. sometimes things don't work out due to the social media that one uses. you turn to put your life on the line and when it back fires you don't know what to do or say. people do not want to see other people happy or being settled.
you go and spill your whole life on twitter and face book, and the next moment things are hot. you cannot handle the pressure anymore. most of the relationships never worked out because of the social media. they say if you not afraid of anything then why not mention me or us on twitter/face book and all that. huh really now? why do i need the social media to prove my self to one?haibo where was social media the time I was getting my success or my life or even my relationship?so why do I need it now?
how about we use social media to discuss issues that affect us? issues that relates to us and a way forward about life?even more awesome how about we use it for discovering talent and other good stuff/what are you going to do with the whole information about me?.gossip??haaayi stop that. my life is my life. You can do what you want with your life and share with everyone the moments that you ahve or been having, it is still your choice. This days social media is being used for wrong reasons, people are being raped and kidnapped due to this social media. if I don't wanna put it on social media so be it. Respect that.

LADIES DRESS LIKE LADIES

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You want to be respected but you wear like you going to sell your body at Moderfontein. where is your dignity?really? is that how you want to be viewed?as a hooker look alike?. Haibo...the next thing you will be complaining about rape, crying rape. OK we do know that the way you dress is not an invitation for men to come and do as they please but you also have to know that they are people too and they do have desires and emotions that they cant control. Their minds run  in speed that they also dot know where it came from. Am not speaking for men but I am just a concerned lady.  What ever happened to our morals, respect, value, dignity, reputation? this is the new South Africa, but it does not mean we should let go f out self respect and most importantly our culture. A women should dress up like a women not a little kid. One can be beautiful without going to an extend of wearing like a hooker. We love to embrace our looks, our body but there is a right way of doing things. Can a lady dress up like a lady please!!! what will harm you if you don't wear like a lady? These 21st century has ruined everything. next thing you Will hear her saying "I wear as want". Yeah yeah you wear what makes you comfortable, but be look able. The way you dress do make people to respect you. What happened to our cultures though? our elders left and now we doing as we please.No need to impress anyone, if they like you then they will like you even though you look like a lady. Dress like a lady to be treated like one.

MY CONVERSE SHOES

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Of all the shoes I have, label or not, my best shoes will always be my converse all stars...This shoes complete my day. Even when I don't wear them, but before i sleep i have to make sure that I see them. this are the best I have ever had in my life. so far i have about five pairs of converse shoes. most preferred colour of this shoe for me is black. Every where I go, this shoe fits in..lol..its like my best friend. if you ask what is the one thing that you wont go a week without in your life? my answer will be my converse black all stars shoes. they make my movement easy. When wearing them I am free and can do what I want. I can drive easy with them. they are just comfortable for me... I can confirm that i am a die hard fan of Converse shoes. I never get enough of these shoes. If it was possible I would sleep with them>>ooh well maybe that has happened lol.>> The most funny thing is I don't wash them. It is believed that in the townships the converse shoes once you have them, you don't wash them, and that's a sign of respect. Lucky me I don't have smelly feet so I still even today keep the tradition. That's my loyalty to the converse shoes. I call them "mdrifefe"lol another name for all stars. With the shoes one can do anything, from running to playing any sport, even dancing which is what I normally do. Once you buy the shoes, it wont be long till you want to get the second pair..."di na le woza woza" they have a come back again..Converse my shoe, Converse my better half...hope KB wont complain.lol Its life appreciate your shoes lol...MY CONVERSE SHOE..MY MDRIFEFE...

LITTLE THINGS THAT MAKES ONE SMILE

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little things in life are the ones that makes one smile and turns one happy. Only if we as the public or people should learn to appreciate what we have, even if its not enough. Sometimes its not up to us to decide but for God to decide. Its not by choice that today we are as poor or as rich as we are. God has plans for all of us.though there is no excuse of being poor or anyhow. At the end we are all the same and we all have choices.

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

A woman whose smile is open and whose expression is glad has a kind of beauty no matter what she wears. Happiness is a decision that one chooses to be. love. live and respect keeps me happy. Don't expect love from others while you know yourself that you don't give back too.Peace begins with a smile.

If you have only one smile in you give it to the people you love. Oh well some might have people whom makes them smile like me....lol..yes He does make me smile and that's what I appreciate more. no need for material or any sort of thing but a smile is enough. seeing other people happy also brings me joy, my smile, and I know everything is going to be alright.

I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. It is the business of little minds to shrink, but he whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves his conduct, will pursue his principles unto death. There is nothing that a prayer cant fix.

Appreciate the little that you have and am telling you you will be happy at all times. Keep in mind that what you have, there are many people out there who dont have it/them. SMILE

MY LOVE FOR PUBLIC RELATIONS

Re A Gola Multipurpose centre

Re A Gola

I always wanted to help people who need help in my life, that is the dream that I always had and still have today. Choosing Public Relations was the best choice i have ever made in my life. It gives me a chance to prove my self that with a dream and with passion nothing is impossible. I do have a believe that nothing is gonna stop me from achieving my dream. What led to me to study PR is because of the love I have for people. I believe a giving hand is a receiving hand. God blessed us differently and we need to use the gift that he gave us and the presents that he gave us. for me I think it was not by choice but Gods choice. he gave me the heart to help others. If it was up to me no kid or an elder would be leaving in poverty. bringing life, love, joy and the smile to people is what I would love to do. The more the heart is happier, the longer one gets to leave. We need to take care of the unfortunate. I think that what God made us for. How do you feel when you always have something to eat and you always throw good food in the bin whiles others are hungry out there? Are you even reading the Bible?. Well no one is forced to help other people but if one has love withing their hearts then they would know what I am talking about. No one deserves to sleep with an empty stomach no one I say. PR well is not all about helping the needy but me love that side of it where I can give back to the community. A child cant be raised by an individual but a community does raise a child. not everyone will appreciate the good you do but giving up is not an option. Currently am doing my PR campaign where we help the NGO to get sponsors and donations and I must say its not easy but with love I know I will make it. Nothing will always be the way we want them to be but a prayer can do a lot. Last year it was a group work and I must say my team did a good job and this year everyone is on their own. The organisation that am working with is Re A Gola Multipurpose Center, It deals with everybody with any problem or situation. The organisation has been there for over 10 years but it is still not well known even people around the community some cant tell if there is one or not. Lots of kids come there for food and most of the kids are the bread winners at home which its not a good thing at all. The centre is too small to accommodate everyone but it does all it can. Not enough utensils are there, food,technology,The building it self its way too small, clothes and many more. I believe if the community work together nothing can be hard to achieve.This people are also people like us. why do we look down on them? They need motivation to get going but we keep giving the cold shoulders. Just imagine if it was you?life!!!!think twice help make the world look better and be a better place to be.

WHY RAPE OUR ELDERS????

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What really has gone into today's generations mindset???Is this how we want life to be??Rape our grandparents??Where is the respect there?never mention the love. It is so hurting to read, hear and see such things happen to our elders. This people are suppose to be out guardians,our motivation, our inspiration but what do we do to them? We Rape them. We hurt them. what happened to our respect? theses people raised us with love and care and they still get to raise us to become better people in the future. What is really happening? how does one feel raping their own parents?even if they might not be from the same family as us that doesn't give the rights to rape them. why are we torturing them in this way? Do they even deserve this? like really now??Dont you even fear that God is looking at you? How do you feel after doing that?. I was watching 3rd Dgree where they show how elder people are being raped and how their lives are in danger. to most shocking they get raped by the ones they raised. people leave in fear now, our grandparents are supposed to be leaving their last moments happy but it seems like they live their pension life in fear.
We suppose to be taking care of them not making their lives a living hell. no one wish to be raped no one. sometimes we rely on the police but that alone is not enough because they turn to release this culprits and they would come to repeat the same thing again. elders are afraid of living and sleeping. they now sleep with knifes to protect themselves from being raped. that aint healthy at all. Where is the RESPECT????Rape on its own its not good.

BE TRUE TO YOUR SELF

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One favour you can do for your self is to stay true to your self and stop pretending to be something or someone you are not. God doesn't judge His children. we are equal before His eyes. no one needs to change just to satisfy the other one. If they love and care about you then they should appreciate you as you are. instate of changing you, the can at-least make you better. always stay true to your self. when you not feeling something don't be afraid to tell or to express your feelings. after all this at the end it will eat you up and its not healthy for ones health. open your heart and be as faithful as you can be. Honesty is the best. no matter how many people you might hurt as long as its the truth then its better than keeping a secret or lying to your loved ones, Don't say you are protecting them but if you wanna protect them then better be honest to them.
God has given you one face, and you make yourself another. no need to lie just to keep other happy. what about you?think of what that might do to you.jealousy is the ugliest trade.
Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else. peer pressure might be high. start thinking of your future, your dreams , how you gonna achieve them. focus on what you wanna do in life than busy looking at other peoples business. learn from them. learn to motivate your self. you are more than words can say. there will always be people to get you down but don't let them. do what you believe in and don't give up. Theres no benefits in pretending.

DADDY vs DAUGHTER

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Today its me against my dad, we fighting for the spot on the finals for the MTN Wafa Wafa game. lol you should see how we are arguing about the match, about who will win.  My dad is simply the best hey. I enjoy every moment i have and i spend with him. My mom sometimes think we crazy. Well today Downs which is the team i follow is playing against the BIRDS...this i will love to watch hey. Daddy saying Wena my angel o tseya di chance, ro ho kgataka lol "you my angel is taking chances, we gonna beat you up". who wouldn't wanna spend this precious times that we have been given by the All Mighty with their parents. sometimes my dad thinks that i am a boy and asks me who raised me lol and he is the one who raised me and taught me all this. well it was one of those father daughter moments. loved and will always cherish them. I can proudly say I love my dad and I am thankful for having him in my life and as a dad. ups and downs are there but with good communication nothing is impossible. We always ague about every match even international we still do ague. He is a Chelsea and am a Man United... my dad is my best friend. we talk about everything. he once made me to watch boxing lol not my favourite but still do watch when i miss him. Well today its all about Team Downs and The Birds fighting to go on the finals with MATSATSANTSA A PITORI. well the last night match was a killer one when pirates and supersport were playing to get in the finals. gosh i loved it and enjoyed it to the fullest. best game of WAFA WAFA. lol lets wait till the game begins to see if me or my dad goes to the finals. lol daddy may the best me win...hahaha..love u still. Sky is the limit...Thlompho Kekana must score one for me. few minutes before the game start.

BEST MEMORY EVER

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It all began when I was doing my matric in 2009. My dad decided that I should make a licence while I was still fresh. Well at that time I did not know anything about driving. Over the holidays my dad would take me to his place and he would teach me how to drive. Well those are the best memories ever and would always cherish them. I gave my dad hard time and he ended up hiring someone to teach me. Well since I loved my dad so much and wanted to spend time with him, I gave the instructor a hard time too and my dad ended up saying he will teach me him self till I get it. He began to be rude and started to shout me and for me I always laughed and took it as a joke. Well within that month I knew a lot about driving. I so love my dad. Those days were the father daughter days. Well I had to focus on my matric before I can take a licence. then after my matric I only learnt how to drive and did not take the licence. after three years I decided to to ask my dad to buy me a car and he said I should start with the learners first.  I booked for the learners and and on the 21st of December 2011 I wrote my learners, gosh I was so scared and so slow. I didn't know what to say but I knew my K53 so well. well after fer minutes they called us back into the venue and they started to call those who did not make it...my heart was pumping soo high, out of my skin. but when he called the last name and said the rest you made it...I WAS SOOO OVER THE MOON. called daddy and told him and he said"that's my angel". oh well days passed and I kept on using daddy's car for better practise. then after the holidays when the traffic department opened I decided to book for a licence, then they gave me the date.. now I started to be more scared because my dad promised me a car if I pass. Came the 19th of January 2012, I woke up and bathed and used my dads car to the department for my test. Came my time I couldn't even feel my heart beat anymore. Then the instructor took all the information and asked me to do the K53 and I did then asked me to get in the car and start it yoh"MODIMO" I got in and started and did the driving passed the steep hill,then reverse and all that then went out side to the road...."JEHOVA" I was calm since well we are out of the department because outside its not  problem. I did what I was told and followed the instruction, the next moment we are back in the traffic department"OH LORD" I  was the happiest lady ever...that was the day I would not forget in my life the best day ever. The instructor was so scary and so rude but that did not make me to lose it...called my dad and he ululated for me"LOL DADDY" he was so happy for me. lol he didn't get me the car even today hai my dad lol>>still crazy about him thou.

NEVER GIVE UP

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Hope is a companion of power and the mother of success, for who ever has hope within them has a gift of miracle. The struggle of today is the price that we must pay for the victories of tomorrow. Do not look at where you said you fell, but  where you stood up and wrapped honour around your shoulder. Just know that whatever the mind believes, the whole body will achieve.
if you fall five times, then you must stand up ten times. Don't let anyone to discourage you, even you closest part of your life. work hard, even though the road to success is nit sweet roses, never give up. quitters always loses.
Never use your background as an excuse. There are many opportunities out there. all you need and have to do is to grab them with both hands and accept the challenge. Upgrade your altitude. Be confident about your dreams and be steady to achieve them. Don't be ashamed of what people say. just be your self and surely you will make it. nothing is impossible only if you believe. Never give up.

WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR CULTURE?



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This century seems like we have given up on our culture. our forefathers are acting in their graves literally so. its like they don't matter anymore.A nation's culture resides in the hearts and in the soul of its people.women of this days have changed, they are the heads of the house holds. they do men's jobs and a lot to mention. this is why this days there is no difference between man and women. women command  men to do some of the house hold jobs. they also talk back at them. at first it used to men who would head up the house and make sure the security is tight. now woman are in charge and some say they are tired of being left alone and that they need to be busy and they are tired of being looked down and turned into maids and all  baby makers. this shows that women are able to become independent too but for how long? and where have the morals gone to? does the bible say women are allowed to rule?if so where in the bible?. OK the clothes that we wear this days, this times, this generation... are they of out culture or of the western culture? why are we embracing the western peoples culture and not ours? ain't we proud to be what we are? OK sharp we look sexy and all that in the western clothes but until when? we not saying people should wear what our forefathers were wearing but try to take your culture into consideration. you will grow and become better. a women should and must wear like a women and not imitate a men... am i right?????huh huh huh?say something!!!Ag man just for once think and don't be dictated by some other people. do what you think is right for you. at the end the choice is yours. a women should not reveal all her parts of the body... take initiative.

MY UNIVERSITY LIFE

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Oh yes I am a student at MGI. Ever since I enrolled at this institution life has been very different. I've been here since 2010 and now I am doing my third year and nothing is easy but with love and dedication nothing is impossible. we are what we do, excellence, therefor, is not an act but a habit meaning that when ever I feel down and unable to do my work I think twice and get motivated. for my self I always put my trust ad believe on God. what ever work that I do at school I also add him within my work. well first around this school what I first noticed is that students love fashion and entertainment a lot but at the same time they make it a point that they do their work and submit within the allocated time. for me its the same but slightly different because I don't do fashion or get exposed to entertainment that they mostly get to be. within the years that I've been here things have happened. well the good and the bad. disappointment's and disagreements were also part of it. this is all that we know gets to happen to everyone. well I also found love, which was something that I did not think that I will get. theres got to be time for everything. have to manage them all, but we all know that books and boys don't work together. MGI is a very small institute, one can know the whole school within a year. classes are very small which I like and mostly I can access my lecturers at anytime and they are there to help too. not much of sports is taking place. me would have loved to join the volley ball team but unfortunately I've got no idea where to go. its kinda complicated. well all I can say is MGI rocks besides the fact that its too expensive but a good school to continue with your studies.

MY PURPLE WATCH

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My love for purple wrist watches is way beyond my control. every time when i see one i go crazy and to me its like a habit. i might not have much of the purple watches but am definitely a freak of them. beautiful purple watches just completes ma day. i smile when i see one. every time i go shopping i end up looking for one and craving to own one. i like to believe that am not sexually frustrated as most say people who like the colour purple are most to be the ones that are sexually frustrated. purple purple purple...that is my first favourite colour. i just have grown to love it. everybody have their own favourite colours and they have their own reasons to why they love them. as people we different and unique in our own ways. a day without the watch fells like am weak, got no energy and that i am useless. my watch completes me> i just love the colour and its even grown to the level that when ever i dress i make sure that nothing purple is left out. that is my favourite colour and it defines me in my own way.

CHASING DEAMS WITH PASSION

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Have you always wondered what you want to become in the next coming years? the dreams that you are already chasing are they worth it though?. life is so precious, so live it to the fullest where you wont have any regrets when its late. Its good to enjoy your childhood and have dreams to chase. being a no dreamer does not help at all and it makes one to end up being nothing and mostly resulting into gangs and doing all those bad stuff. As an individual its good to allow your self to dream and to give your self a chance to make it to the next level. Do not live to prove other people wrong but live to make your self happy at all times and be sure that you are satisfied with everything that you get. Learn not to depend on others people but be self independent. Being Rebeca Masina that i am, i am looking forward to getting my dreams into reality. Well i love music, love making people to dance and relax to good music, so being a house DJ will definitely be what am chasing and i am also into Radio and Public Relations. With the passion that i have i so believe that i will make it and my dreams will come true. not everyone will agree to helping you to get your dreams into actions so the first thing that you should do is to ask God the Creator and He will lead you all the way. Nothing beats a prayer. At times i learn to be self motivated because some people will not like what you are doing. life is too short>>>>who said that  huh??????do you believe that?. in life everyone has a choice< its either you chase down your dreams or you let them to pass by and you become nothing in this world. It is better for one to work for themselves because you may not know what tomorrow brings to one.Never try to step on someones head to get it easy to the top because when you fall its gonna be very hard. focus on the positivity of life and not the negatives. Believe and don't doubt your self..you can do it no matter what kind of background you are from. nothing is impossible unless you make it to be. I am Masina and i believe do you???

THEY CALL THEMSELVES PLAYERS

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They call themselves the best. where ever they go they have someone whom they call a lover or mistress. what is the price of being a player? Being a heart breaker never made a person the best or the greatest, but a nuisance. why cant you stay single if you don't get what the word love means? hurting people has never got anyone a medal or a trophy. why cheat when at first you agreed you wont do that? how will you feel when your partner does that to you? is it worth it though? if you don't love anymore just tell the person the truth and move on with a clean heart and start on a fresh page.Be careful whose toes you step on today because they might be connected to the foot that kicks your ass tomorrow". no one likes being played. what goes around comes around. think before you something that you know when they do to you you wont like or appreciate"So many People take life for granted..but what happened on Sep. 11, 2001 is great proof that what we have might not be here tomorrow! So live everyday like your last...cherish your friends and family and keep them close in your hearts. May God be with those who died, are injured, and have family that aren't here with us today." having many partners especially sexual partners has been gave anyone the god results of it. what has our lives changed to?why are we doing this?. it might be good at the first when doing it and it may feel good but then it never ends good. have mercy for other people. you cal your self a good person whom can get every girl you want at any time. yo come with flashy cars and all that you charm them with money and accessories then end up hurting them when they find out that you are either married or have kids and all that and they are suffering while you are throwing money like that> theres nothing that doesn't have an end> think twice....

WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ME

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We are not the same and we will never no matter what happens be of the same. We are indeed equal and of the same creator but we will never be the same. Some are not gifted the way you are or the way you may be, so making your self better than others. I am and I might be poor but that doesn't mean have the right to judge me and make conclusions about me and my life. Who are you and who sent you? I am who i am today because God, if it was not for Him I wouldn't have been here. let me be and let me live the way my God wants me to. OK  sharp, you rich,you can get what you want in an instant,you intelligent, got the brains and all that, yah God gave you that but He did not give you the reason and the allowance to come and judge me. you really have no right to that. Oh by the way everything in life that you do have consequences so beware of what you do to others, because your day might also come. I keep praying that God forgives you for all the things that you have done to me as I for one has done that. We are not given as much as you are. Stop judging me. I have not done anything to you and I don't believe that I owe you anything. Ive lost hope, love, and trust in me because you keep judging me, you keep belittling me. Ive come to believe that yes I am dumb and I cannot do anything in life and I cannot achieve anything. You made me to believe that I am of no use to this world and to my little knowledge I turned to believe that not seeing the light that you are actually judging me. The Glory must be sought after. Stop judging me.

FRIENDSHIP:WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE

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Friends are what is believed to be always by your side through thick and thin. This days things have changed, all they are now is backstabbers. nothing is the same anymore. the people you trust seems to be the ones who betray the trust that we have for them. a friend is one who knows you and love you at the same time. A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity.

A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity.
Drawing the line should not be that hard as we have to understand each other and respect the decisions that they have taken. Respect, love shouldnt be of worry but this days its like one has to woprk more even do the unneccessary just to get the love. a friend to all is a friend to none. you can never tell if they are worth trusting or not."a true story: i for one had to deal with the fraiends whom were not honest to each other, so i had to be caught in the middle. jusr because of their insercurities one has to do something just to get them together. friends are hard to keep this days.

A friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil; but it needs a little mulch of letters and phone calls and small, silly presents every so often - just to save it from drying out completely.

SUICIDE AND TEENAGERS

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Why do we do that? what lead us to such thinking? There is nothing that hurt our parents more than committing suicide and leaving them with no reason to what led you to commit it. As teenagers we grow to have more in our minds and hearts. We just need to control how we react to them. Our parents are there to help us when its tough out there. Committing a suicide is not a way to end our suffering or to solve our problems. It will just cause the family more grief as they have more hopes and dreams about your future. Problems will always be there, and for one not to be hurt, they have to take care of themselves and not allow anyone to control their happiness. as anyone who has been close to someone that has committed suicide knows, there is no other pain like that felt after the incident> life wont always go our way.challenges will always be there.always put God in all your problems and even when you are happy don't forget Him. no parent will want to loose their children to suicide. some suicides are caused by a lot of things like abuse, stress, peer pressure, poor background like poverty. this things are one of the major things that cause most people to commit suicide. Where is the believe and hope?. Can suicide be the last thing on our Minds please. We deserve better and the devil is always smiling when one wants to commit suicide> So shame him....

MOTHERS LOVE IS THE BEST

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Her love is beyond anything, beyond words and explanation. It is simply the bestes. All that i am and all that i hope to be, I owe everything to my mother. We all need our mothers. they might have abandoned us in any way but they have their own reason to why they did such. they carried us for nine months, they went through all the troubles of raising us. theres no one like her.Mothers are the best and they are the strongest in the world. they endure a lot. for that they deserve the best of both worlds. respect, love , honour them, they are our strenghs and they know how to keep us happy. My mom is the best and i would not trade her for anything no matter what. fights and arguments may be there but its all because of love and the care that she has. Mom knows and understand the pains that we go through. no language can express the power, and beauty, and heroism and majesty of my mothers love. It  shrinks not where man cowers and grows stronger where man faints, and over wastes of worldly fortunes sends the radiance of its quenchless fidely like a star...that's our Mothers love.

GOSSIP

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Well the truth is always one thing, but in a way its the other thing, the gossip, that counts its shows where peoples hearts lie. What is the benefit of gossipping?. The tongue of gossip is so strong, that once you have started it wont go out. It is stuck with you. Gossipping may be in terms of jealousy and judgement. No one has the right to gossip about the other as it is not of their problems but they should focus on solving their problems rather than talking about other people unless its about the good achievements that they have done.
as a person of God, be impeccable with your words. speak with integrity, say only what you mean. avoid using the word to speak against your self or to gossip about others. use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love..said Miguel Angel Ruiz. Gossip is the devils radio. It is what no one claims to like, but enjoys. gossip is a rumour that smells dirt. it is never true. when one gossip it shows the true colour of who they are in reality. are you one of those?some trust their friends only to find out that their friends are skimming behind their backs and telling people their private lives and their problem, but they promised not to tell and they have been told because they where trusted. if you have nothing to say about somebody just keep it that way. it is argued that girls gossip more than guys. which is true? and where do you fall? will gossip take you anywhere?

KNOW YOUR WORTH AS A WOMAN

As a woman we are powerful than our legs. we shoul not let them to control us. we deserve better and we know it. For starters men must know where we stand with them. We don't have to let them to control us, just because its how it should be. Yes men are the heads but without the neck which is us the women, They cannot stand. they will fall. They need us woman to be able to stand. Letting them to control our lives, our feelings, our rights its not on. We definitely know our worth. Firstly what i am wearing its not an invitation for men. We deserve the respect, to be treated like women. We deserve the love, the comfort and the honour. Even though we say we need to be treated with respect, we as women need to dress like women to be respected. As women we do not need to compare ourselves with men, though we deserve better. Men cannot leave without women and women cannot also leave without men. We all need to work together and hold hands to get the best out everything. Women are much more powerful than men, that is the honest truth. No men should underestimate the power of a women. As women we are beautiful, smart and we are the best gifts from God. We  love, we honour, we comfort, we appreciate and we help. We don't owe men anything. We are the drivers and they are the passengers. that they should know and live with it. Yes its our Black culture that says men are Superior than women, but that does not mean they should abuse us women. For i am one proud little lady whom knows her worth as a women. do you? don't let them to take over you.

Miss Masina

JEALOUSY

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Its so much that jealousy can do to a persons life. Being jealous is the same as being selfish.this is a means of not caring to others but only thinking about ones reputation and not others. Once one develops jealousy its a sing that they are always thinking of the negatives or they are always minding other peoples life and forgetting about theirs. they checking on others success and talking about it, whilest they can be doing something that will benefit them too in their lives. "jealousy is the ugliest trade". this is the same as judging other person and that is not what we are brought here on to the world to come and judge others. Most of the people that are jealous tend to be the ones who don't have anything in life. Jealousy is a symptom of insecurity, lack of trust and self confidence and believe. Anger and jealousy can no more bear to loose sight of their objects to love-Gorge Elliot. this can means that once one develops jealousy then it wont be easy to beat Females are likely to be the masters of jealousy, they turn to fight for everything even though sometimes it is useless to do so.They fight for boyfriends like they are married to them or something.

Jealousy is cruel as the grave, the coals thereof are coals of fire. No one ever benefits out of jealousy. stop being jealousy and do something with great value. own up.


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WHAT A SHAME "sugger daddy"

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What has the world turned into? is this the life of today? why do we choose to live like this? why are we betraying our selves?. The life of today; teenage girls seem to have found love with their elders. this days no one wants to go for their size/age. They all opt for a bigger number. Oh as they say "age is just a number". Imagine a young beautiful girl with a brighter future ahead dating someone whom can be of the same age as their fathers. How will you feel when you find out that your friend is dating your parent? will that be OK with you, knowing very well that your mother is being cheated with a younger girl? this is not the way. So do right by others as you will wish them to do. God said "if you are a married men/women cheating on your behalf then you are committing the worst sin ever" and this also goes to younger girls/guys who are dating married people whom have families and houses to maintain. Who said the money and material is everything, because its ovias that most girls fall in love with this elder men just for money and other material things. You have no shame before God.No respect at all. Some parents let their children to date the older men just to get the benefits too. What are the parents doing to the generation of this time? this is not life at all. At the end we shall all reap what we saw. all you care about is the flashy cars that he brings you with, all the fancy clothes he buys for you, all flashy cellphones you carry. at the end he gets what he wants and leaves you with a tummy and he will be no where to be found. A hard lesson will be leaned. the most hurting thing is those who are dating the elder men do know about the consequences but they still go ahead and later live with the regrets and mostly they end up with the diseases. Be smart and think about the future and those you might hurt.

DONT YOU LEARN?

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These days it is like teenagers don't know what they want with their lives. they've gone mad, out of control, even parents start to loose hope for their children's future. teenage pregnancy seems to be most wanted fashion clothing ever around. its like no one can resist it. if you don't have a baby you not on, you not cool. what has really been done to this teenagers of this generation?huh?. what are the benefits of being pregnant ans still at school, worse thing you still need your parents to look after you but then you go out and cos more trouble, more work for them. parents at that time will not be working, they are struggling to support you, what will they do with your child? cant you for once think about the future instead of now?Young people often do not know what they're getting into when they have pre-marital sex. i believe that enough education about sexual and pregnancy have been taught. so they know what the consequences are but they still go on and do it. what drug are they taking?. it is hard to raise a child when you still a child, you will need to bother your parents to do your job.Teens haven't developed well enough in themselves to have the responsibility of raising another life. the worst is that even the father of that baby is nowhere to be found or he is denying the baby. this is so annoying really.

BLESSING

Gomolemo

We have them because they are blessings and they give us hope. when ever i see her everything changes, its like they've just bought me something new that i always wanted. " A cloudy day or a little sunshine have as great an influence on many constitutions as the most recent blessings or misfortunes"-Joseph Addison. some blessings are given without expectations. well little Gomo keeps me awake and relaxed, even though she can be too much of a brat/baby. shes one of the persons whom makes my world to go round. shes pretty much everything to me. the bond that i have with her its too much, too tight to break that even her mom complains about it. she is the joy. when ever with me its like the day she was born. one may ask why i so love this little yellow Bone babe, well its because i raised her from birth.she became my first born immediately after she was born, i don't know if you gonna get this but yeah.. she means the world to me, but i don't want her to forget her real mom. the love Ive got for her is just too overwhelming. she is a Blessing to me..shes a jolly person, likes playing too much, loves water to bits, loves her clothes. shes even beautiful, likes people too. shes a total angel.

LIVE LIKE THERE"S NO TOMORROW

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Why do we like to put ourselves in to too much pressure? why do we think like theres no tomorrow? cant we for a moment take time for ourselves and make something out of nothing? I mean we cant always work ourselves out. we need some break. some tome to ourselves. stress free day or moment. We all know that we need to work hard so that we can reap the goods that we have worked for without any complications. do something to free yourself. dance like theres no one watching..lol but don't break your self..be free, lough out loud and don't be shy to show and express your feelings, true feelings. if you are a bad singer then for that moment sing like no one is listening lol...because if you do think like that then you wont end up anywhere. well when you work then work like you don't need the money.be somebody. give back to those who raised you, who made you. love unconditionally like you will never get hurt. don't forget to live like there is no tomorrow. give thanks to those who believe in you. "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming.-Anon. even if you are a student you don't have to starve your self to death just  because you want to get the degree or something. get a break, even two minutes is fine..live like theres no tomorrow...

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FREEDOM DAY

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What i freedom day to you?what memories does it bring?how do you even commemorate it?. this are the questions that one should ask themselves.  Freedom Day to me is a public holiday celebrated on April 27. We celebrate freedom and commemorate the first post struggles we had and that where held on that day in 1994." under the law of nature, all men are born free. every one comes into the world with a right to his own person-Thomas Jefferson. for this day people are commemorate it wrong. according to my own perspective view i think freedom day is about paying respect to those who fought for us to live this way today. it is not about getting drunk and doing all the negative thing's that may end up in a fight or might end one of us at hospital or something. this nation will remain the land of the free only as it the home of the brave. we have to love and honour those whom made it possible for us to live like this today. the fighters of the struggle and freedom. the fact is that freedom to be meaningful in an organised society must consist of an amalgam of hierarchy of freedoms and restrains-Samuel Hendel.. for this people enjoy your Freedom day and stay safe at all times...