WHY RAPE OUR ELDERS????

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What really has gone into today's generations mindset???Is this how we want life to be??Rape our grandparents??Where is the respect there?never mention the love. It is so hurting to read, hear and see such things happen to our elders. This people are suppose to be out guardians,our motivation, our inspiration but what do we do to them? We Rape them. We hurt them. what happened to our respect? theses people raised us with love and care and they still get to raise us to become better people in the future. What is really happening? how does one feel raping their own parents?even if they might not be from the same family as us that doesn't give the rights to rape them. why are we torturing them in this way? Do they even deserve this? like really now??Dont you even fear that God is looking at you? How do you feel after doing that?. I was watching 3rd Dgree where they show how elder people are being raped and how their lives are in danger. to most shocking they get raped by the ones they raised. people leave in fear now, our grandparents are supposed to be leaving their last moments happy but it seems like they live their pension life in fear.
We suppose to be taking care of them not making their lives a living hell. no one wish to be raped no one. sometimes we rely on the police but that alone is not enough because they turn to release this culprits and they would come to repeat the same thing again. elders are afraid of living and sleeping. they now sleep with knifes to protect themselves from being raped. that aint healthy at all. Where is the RESPECT????Rape on its own its not good.

BE TRUE TO YOUR SELF

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One favour you can do for your self is to stay true to your self and stop pretending to be something or someone you are not. God doesn't judge His children. we are equal before His eyes. no one needs to change just to satisfy the other one. If they love and care about you then they should appreciate you as you are. instate of changing you, the can at-least make you better. always stay true to your self. when you not feeling something don't be afraid to tell or to express your feelings. after all this at the end it will eat you up and its not healthy for ones health. open your heart and be as faithful as you can be. Honesty is the best. no matter how many people you might hurt as long as its the truth then its better than keeping a secret or lying to your loved ones, Don't say you are protecting them but if you wanna protect them then better be honest to them.
God has given you one face, and you make yourself another. no need to lie just to keep other happy. what about you?think of what that might do to you.jealousy is the ugliest trade.
Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else. peer pressure might be high. start thinking of your future, your dreams , how you gonna achieve them. focus on what you wanna do in life than busy looking at other peoples business. learn from them. learn to motivate your self. you are more than words can say. there will always be people to get you down but don't let them. do what you believe in and don't give up. Theres no benefits in pretending.

DADDY vs DAUGHTER

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Today its me against my dad, we fighting for the spot on the finals for the MTN Wafa Wafa game. lol you should see how we are arguing about the match, about who will win.  My dad is simply the best hey. I enjoy every moment i have and i spend with him. My mom sometimes think we crazy. Well today Downs which is the team i follow is playing against the BIRDS...this i will love to watch hey. Daddy saying Wena my angel o tseya di chance, ro ho kgataka lol "you my angel is taking chances, we gonna beat you up". who wouldn't wanna spend this precious times that we have been given by the All Mighty with their parents. sometimes my dad thinks that i am a boy and asks me who raised me lol and he is the one who raised me and taught me all this. well it was one of those father daughter moments. loved and will always cherish them. I can proudly say I love my dad and I am thankful for having him in my life and as a dad. ups and downs are there but with good communication nothing is impossible. We always ague about every match even international we still do ague. He is a Chelsea and am a Man United... my dad is my best friend. we talk about everything. he once made me to watch boxing lol not my favourite but still do watch when i miss him. Well today its all about Team Downs and The Birds fighting to go on the finals with MATSATSANTSA A PITORI. well the last night match was a killer one when pirates and supersport were playing to get in the finals. gosh i loved it and enjoyed it to the fullest. best game of WAFA WAFA. lol lets wait till the game begins to see if me or my dad goes to the finals. lol daddy may the best me win...hahaha..love u still. Sky is the limit...Thlompho Kekana must score one for me. few minutes before the game start.

BEST MEMORY EVER

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It all began when I was doing my matric in 2009. My dad decided that I should make a licence while I was still fresh. Well at that time I did not know anything about driving. Over the holidays my dad would take me to his place and he would teach me how to drive. Well those are the best memories ever and would always cherish them. I gave my dad hard time and he ended up hiring someone to teach me. Well since I loved my dad so much and wanted to spend time with him, I gave the instructor a hard time too and my dad ended up saying he will teach me him self till I get it. He began to be rude and started to shout me and for me I always laughed and took it as a joke. Well within that month I knew a lot about driving. I so love my dad. Those days were the father daughter days. Well I had to focus on my matric before I can take a licence. then after my matric I only learnt how to drive and did not take the licence. after three years I decided to to ask my dad to buy me a car and he said I should start with the learners first.  I booked for the learners and and on the 21st of December 2011 I wrote my learners, gosh I was so scared and so slow. I didn't know what to say but I knew my K53 so well. well after fer minutes they called us back into the venue and they started to call those who did not make it...my heart was pumping soo high, out of my skin. but when he called the last name and said the rest you made it...I WAS SOOO OVER THE MOON. called daddy and told him and he said"that's my angel". oh well days passed and I kept on using daddy's car for better practise. then after the holidays when the traffic department opened I decided to book for a licence, then they gave me the date.. now I started to be more scared because my dad promised me a car if I pass. Came the 19th of January 2012, I woke up and bathed and used my dads car to the department for my test. Came my time I couldn't even feel my heart beat anymore. Then the instructor took all the information and asked me to do the K53 and I did then asked me to get in the car and start it yoh"MODIMO" I got in and started and did the driving passed the steep hill,then reverse and all that then went out side to the road...."JEHOVA" I was calm since well we are out of the department because outside its not  problem. I did what I was told and followed the instruction, the next moment we are back in the traffic department"OH LORD" I  was the happiest lady ever...that was the day I would not forget in my life the best day ever. The instructor was so scary and so rude but that did not make me to lose it...called my dad and he ululated for me"LOL DADDY" he was so happy for me. lol he didn't get me the car even today hai my dad lol>>still crazy about him thou.

NEVER GIVE UP

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Hope is a companion of power and the mother of success, for who ever has hope within them has a gift of miracle. The struggle of today is the price that we must pay for the victories of tomorrow. Do not look at where you said you fell, but  where you stood up and wrapped honour around your shoulder. Just know that whatever the mind believes, the whole body will achieve.
if you fall five times, then you must stand up ten times. Don't let anyone to discourage you, even you closest part of your life. work hard, even though the road to success is nit sweet roses, never give up. quitters always loses.
Never use your background as an excuse. There are many opportunities out there. all you need and have to do is to grab them with both hands and accept the challenge. Upgrade your altitude. Be confident about your dreams and be steady to achieve them. Don't be ashamed of what people say. just be your self and surely you will make it. nothing is impossible only if you believe. Never give up.

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