I AM A DREAMER

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Well I am a big fan of big and fast machines. I know it is weird for a girl to be so in love and crazy about cars and speed. Well I guess I am different. Anyways we are all different in our own way and unique too. This article i self dedicate. Ive always wanted to test drive a ford focus st 2010 model and guess what???finally I did. One of my good friends whom did not find it easy letting me test drive his car finally I managed to convinced him to let me drive it. whoa!!! before I tell about my experience, let me say this.... Damn this car is a machine, one of the best machines I've ever tested. Surely and maybe there are other machines too better than this one but hey this is one is the one for me. It may not my dream car but hey this car is magic. The interior is leather, gear knob runs up to 6 OMG the wheels are magic, very super. it is like you in a spaceship. for my self and for the love of speed id recommend not to buy such a car...I would not survive long. Well OK my experience....felt like I am on another planet, like I am in a machine that flies. First gear its like the 3 gear of a Nissan, my car.I for one dream bigger than this, and I believe I can do it in every way only if i believe. You too can still dream bigger than this. This is not only about fast cars and beautiful ones but also about life, how it is easy to lose it because of unnecessary things. Don't let your down. Be a dreamer and Dream BIG. Even though it is not the original one and the original colour I still BOW DOWN to the creators of Ford....

GET OVER IT

Why look back when there is a brighter future ahead of you? Like really, are you going to cry over spoiled milk? What guarantee do you have that whatever you have left back there, will be the same when you return back? Is it worth it though? Move on, its life and it happens. We can’t always have everything that we want in life and besides the best things are worth waiting for... so relax and move on

Life won’t always be about you, not everything will rotate around you sweets. So better get over it and move on. The beauty of life is that you are not the only precious soul available but there are a lot of them, with you it was just a learning curve and I for say thanks for the lesson. There aint no going back. Once beaten twice as shy... No need to go begging for a second chance because that second chance will lead to a third one and so on, then who will be fooled there?. You keep hurting yourself for nothing.

Fun is what you always had, happiness is what one gave you and always considered you first at all times, but for now it is time to get over it...Life is too precious to be hanged up on someone whom doesn’t even for a second think of you. GET OVER IT

A WOMEN'S DIGNITY

As a women you suppose to carry yourself with respect at all times. Show your true leadership and not allow to be dictated by anyone. In Sepedi it is said “Mosadi o tshwara thipa ka bogaleng”, a women holds a knife on the sharp side. Temptations will always be there but a woman should stay strong and resist them. It is said that a women’s dignity is her husband, do you believe that? Well not all of us are in relationships yet we still maintain our dignity.

What happened to all of that? Today you cannot differentiate between a young girl and a woman. Girls will be sleeping with elder men whom are the same age as their parents, hoping to get all the good things in life, ride in flashy big cars, go shopping to expensive shops , eat expensive food at some expensive restaurants but all of that in return you have to sleep around with them. Where is your dignity there? You should be at school doing something about your dreams, goals for the future. Is that older man to marry you or he is just using you as his sex slave? Remember he has a family at home, a wife and kids. Why are you turning yourself into a home wrecker?

Women, whom we should be calling our parents sometimes, are the one that pressure their kids into having sugar daddies. We expect our parents to raise us to be the better people of tomorrow, know how to respect others especially our life partners but how can that happen when our parents are going out with our friends, guys our age and they call them ‘’abo Ben Ten’’...where is self respect and dignity there?...Life can amaze you...how do you live with that kodwa? When you pray what do you say to God? Are you honest though?

Women you are stronger than that. You can do more than that. You carry the world yes and you can run it. As a writer I am not saying men must be treated somehow and am not saying women are weak, but all am saying is women can do better.  As a woman you are more powerful than words.