AUSI, ABUTI PHAPHAMA

Are you that one girl that they only miss, call and text when they want sex? Haaa excuse me but they using you shame. And there you are charmed by those flashy cars that they still owe, telling you that they bought it cash. Enklek what do you gain there? What are the benefits? Is it the gifts, food and the clothes they buy you only to find out they did not even buy them his sister did not like them because she has good taste, then he just decided to keep them till he gets bored and horney then calls you and surprises you and wena with lack of taste in fashion and good things you feel like he bought you life, just because you are an idiot you also think the guy likes you and all that then two minutes later you open your legs. You are his distraction from his problems just so you know plus he is taking advantage unless you are also up for game.

 Have you ever asked yourself, where does he stay because he always takes you to cheap motels, which you think they are expensive. He never even mention the word love yet you tell us that you are in love saying (chomie hape nna ka ratiwa) lol you will tell us the day you realise that you are actually HIV positive or suffering from any sexually transmitted disease and being pregnant then him not to be found. KHUZEKA NTOMBI.

Your background should not be the reason you do such things. “You have means to achieve your dreams and men are not the answer”.

Are you that one guy that girls miss and be friendly, pretend to love when they are bored and want to go out and they call you because you have a flashy car and money and they call you “kgogo ya rona” ao hahaha shame phaphama (wakeup) baho hloba strong! They keep giving you false hope of love. Ai shem ngwana batho just because wena you love them and you are too blind to see that you are being used, you keep falling for their tricks.

Yah neh the world is messed up, but retlareng? That’s how things work these days. Go rough mo ntle mo. Being sweet and all that good won’t work but they will take advantage unless you also have your own motives.

For everything you do, there’s always going to be a result for it.

THE GIFT OF GIVING

It is almost time for the festive season. The time for spending and having good times with family and friends.

In these times do you ever think of those that don’t have anything to eat, drink and dress? It is heartbreaking to see someone suffering at the same time looking at you whilst you are having fun. Where’s the love? Can’t we share?
Out there, there are Non Governmental Organisations that helps people from all over the world with homes, food and better life. Those organisations are everywhere. Spread love and help them know how it is to be loved and appreciated mostly how it is to have fun once in a while. Most of the people have lost their families, homes due to fire or crucial accidents. They ran from their families due to abuse.
Give them love, even if it is not love but whatever you give them make sure it comes from the heart. That person will forever cherish that moment and thank you. Have you seen that most of the people who are thankful for the life that they are given are those that don’t have anything in life?
The gift of giving back is when you open your heart and give the love to those that need it. It doesn’t have to be materialistic. There more you give back the more the Blessings from God come.  Give help to anyone, it can be your neighbour or a stranger. God gave you the power to give back, use it.
This time have the heart of giving and make someone else life different. Make someone smile once in a while. Give that street kid a blanket. Show them where they can go for safety and better life. Dress that kid to school. Do anything that can change their perspective view of the world. Give them hope.
If you don’t know which organisation you can make donations to or to contact, then ask around or email me at rebecccateffo@gmail.com or call me on 0745696220.

Make someone’s life a better one, change their suicidal thinking.