LET THEM WRITE

LET THEM WRITE...

By Rebecca Masina

Let them write. Let them express through writing because it seems like it is the only way of how they can actually say what is eating them, what is inside of them. Writing allows one to express themselves, to tell their feelings. It can be of anger, joy, love, sorrow or happiness, but please just allow them write. They may not know how to tell the way they feel aloud but with written words one will bet you, they can do a better job. It hurts, it really does hurt to lose them but if it is for a good cause then so be it.  You cannot force them, despite of how you may be feeling. What you must know and believe in is that when it is done let it be. Do not force it. Do not close the door for them. It can be a friend, a long time friend, a better half, a long term one; do not refuse them the way.  Set them free. A lot might have happened but sometimes we cannot control how we feel about certain things.

You spend days and weeks thinking about them, thinking of what went wrong and how it all began, how you could have prevented it but either way it was time to let go.  Sometimes our lives, happiness come first then the rest shall follow. It will feels like part of your life has died and about to be buried.  You cannot blame everything on yourself; you will end up losing the good life that the LORD has given you. Well guess se sesa feleng sea hlola. Learn a thing or two from such then move on. Always remember to say NO to abuse. Leave or report it.

LET THEM WRITE

AFTER LOVE

After love

By Rebecca Masina

How easy it is to tell that one person how much they mean to you and what you would do for them. The plans that you have for the relationship and how you planning to execute them. You promise them heaven and earth and at that moment you believe whatever that you are being told, thinking that this better half is really a serious and a commitment person that you can rely on in good and bad times. They tell you the impossible and make you believe that they are the possible, even though you know very well that they can’t move any mountain for you but you believe all in the name of love.

We’ll wait till they have got enough of you. They tasted all your angles. Right to left, centre and backwards. Then you will see their true colours, what they are really made of. Once you piss them off. Woo it’s going to be one hell of a mountain to climb.

They used to tell you how beautiful, handsome, sexy you are. How you are made for them. How you are a blessing to them and all that. Now they are telling you that you were never their type from the first place and that they were only doing you a favour lol. They will be telling the whole world how you bad you are in bed, lazy, how you smell and how all wrong you are. Ow and the best they can say is ‘’I don’t even know what I was seeing in her/him’’. Then they will continue to say maybe you gave them korobela, that you are bad luck to them lol...such madness. They will complain as if they were rich or successful before you came and gave them bad luck.

 At that moment they don’t even own a simple R10 000 UNO. They don’t even have a shack to their name let alone a job that pays more than R5 000. Hahaha some people though! So all of a sudden one of you is a gold digger, a user, good for nothing. Lol to check just last week you were called the best ave ever had. What amazes me is that, all along they did not see all the wrong that you had? Well that’s love for you or should I say after love for you? What are the benefits of bad mouthing the other half? When love is no more just move on, after all its life and we learn from such.

It is better to be honest than to stay in a relationship that you don’t have an interest on anymore and be unhappy on. It might hurt to be dumped but best believe it is for a good cause. You don’t want to be played because that will be the worst heartbreak ever. Better be told the truth and be able to move on freely. It can be hard and unforgiving but all happens for a reason. If it is not meant to be let it go and do not force love.

AFTER LOVE

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