Beautiful Young Lady

By Rebecca Masina

Beautiful, as you are you still don’t know what you want in life but a man to keep you busy? Mara why?  How about you seek someone who’s going to instil self-love and appreciation than to make you think that you are nothing without them? Ausy you deserve better than you think you do. Choose education and success before men. Men will always be there. It’s not like when you choose to go to school and become independent you going to find them dead or taken.

Raetsa, if he’s not yours he aint yours lovey. Stop forcing. You are only 22 years of age but already crying about a man who doesn’t give you attention, keng wa gafa? Do you know what your age mates are thinking about? Career objectives, books, cars, clothes and success and wena you are here thinking about a man whose not even your age but your parents age. Are you sure you are ok? We not judging but hey. There’s more to life than men nana. The worst thing about all this is that, the man that you are crying about is married and has a family and he’s educated with master’s degree in engineering. Wena dololo. 

Wake up, phaphama love. Most girls would die to have their own hoses, cars and great careers. But wena all you do is to think about a man who’s not giving you attention at the age of 22? Huh. A lady should be self-motivated and men should be running after you while you walking with your six inch heels babe and some Brazilian or Peruvian weave lovey.  

Do not neglect yourself because of love, hell no love won’t pay bills and definitely men won give you success. At least if you were with a guy that advices you to go to school and get your degree in whatever you are ambitious about. Unless wena you are ambitious about him then aretse. 

Skado you are still young and deserve much more than a man who is married with kids and only gives you attention when he wants your ass.  Fortunately you don’t have a kid with him, move on and look for your age mates, people who will instil morals in your head, self-love and intelligent. Remember kuku ya hao won’t work for you forever but your education will take you an long way. 

REJECTION

By Rebecca

Rejection is the most painful yet the best lesson in life. Have you ever been rejected? It doesn’t not matter how you get rejected but hey it really hit the nerve hey. The pain you get from being rejected is super deep. It’s like you have been stabbed with a sharp knife. We all in some way have been rejected and we all handle rejection differently.

Love… something so nice yet very hard to find. Something so amazing yet comes with the biggest hurt ever. We mostly love where we are not loved and we turn to not even notice that until we are hurt or rejected. I don’t think there is master of handling rejection. If you are there contact us, share with us on how to handle it.

It is said and believed that where we are lived we don’t love. Well there’s always a lesson there hey. Have you ever had a time where you thought you and that person are dating but ai ke that person is on some friend zone tip? Well that on its own its rejection at best.

We later realized that being single and minding your own business is actually the best and let love come when it’s ready and you as well.  I thin rejection is a lesson for us to put focus on ourselves and live life to the fullest.

Tae note, rejection hurts big time.