By Rebecca Masina
We fall in love, and it is all great and all that. All the confusions go away. You love more than anything as if he has bought you the heaven on earth. Making it easier to stand on both feet. It hurts but feels so damn good right? You don’t know what to do because you are so in love and the feeling it’s indescribable. It is so sweet that you know what, you say screw condom. Screw protection. It's soo nice so precious so amazing.
Months down the line you are pregnant and then the reality kicks in. He kicks you out of his place. What have you done? You left your apartment that your parents were paying for you to stay at. You went on to live with him without telling your parents that you now have a boyfriend and you live with him why?? Because you knew they wouldn't allow fat n sit right? It hurts yet it is great. That the feeling you get when you are in love.
The world becomes the best place to live in. After he has kicked you out with your three months tummy and you have lost your job, you now resort to going back home and tell your parents that you are expecting and the father of your child is not interested. What are we doing to our parent's though? They sent us to school to better our lives and we give them masepa as a thank you.
However with that said, ladies, the best thing to do is to put your baby first, and the rest shall come later. No need to rush. No need to feel like you need a man to keep your life going. And the most important fact that ladies should know is that it is a blessing to have a child but only when the blessing came at the right time.
Put your baby first. Men later,
Remember no one makes the other one pregnant but the both of you made a baby. You know very well the results of unprotected sex. Don’t act.
Do not give babies to girlfriends and boyfriends,
Lesson learned the hard way
