WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ME

https://www.google.co.za/search?hl=en&q=stressed+person+picture.html

We are not the same and we will never no matter what happens be of the same. We are indeed equal and of the same creator but we will never be the same. Some are not gifted the way you are or the way you may be, so making your self better than others. I am and I might be poor but that doesn't mean have the right to judge me and make conclusions about me and my life. Who are you and who sent you? I am who i am today because God, if it was not for Him I wouldn't have been here. let me be and let me live the way my God wants me to. OK  sharp, you rich,you can get what you want in an instant,you intelligent, got the brains and all that, yah God gave you that but He did not give you the reason and the allowance to come and judge me. you really have no right to that. Oh by the way everything in life that you do have consequences so beware of what you do to others, because your day might also come. I keep praying that God forgives you for all the things that you have done to me as I for one has done that. We are not given as much as you are. Stop judging me. I have not done anything to you and I don't believe that I owe you anything. Ive lost hope, love, and trust in me because you keep judging me, you keep belittling me. Ive come to believe that yes I am dumb and I cannot do anything in life and I cannot achieve anything. You made me to believe that I am of no use to this world and to my little knowledge I turned to believe that not seeing the light that you are actually judging me. The Glory must be sought after. Stop judging me.

FRIENDSHIP:WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE

http://www.friendspics.html

Friends are what is believed to be always by your side through thick and thin. This days things have changed, all they are now is backstabbers. nothing is the same anymore. the people you trust seems to be the ones who betray the trust that we have for them. a friend is one who knows you and love you at the same time. A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity.

A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity.
Drawing the line should not be that hard as we have to understand each other and respect the decisions that they have taken. Respect, love shouldnt be of worry but this days its like one has to woprk more even do the unneccessary just to get the love. a friend to all is a friend to none. you can never tell if they are worth trusting or not."a true story: i for one had to deal with the fraiends whom were not honest to each other, so i had to be caught in the middle. jusr because of their insercurities one has to do something just to get them together. friends are hard to keep this days.

A friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil; but it needs a little mulch of letters and phone calls and small, silly presents every so often - just to save it from drying out completely.

SUICIDE AND TEENAGERS

https://www.google.co.za/search?hl=en&q=a+girl+commiting+suicide.html

Why do we do that? what lead us to such thinking? There is nothing that hurt our parents more than committing suicide and leaving them with no reason to what led you to commit it. As teenagers we grow to have more in our minds and hearts. We just need to control how we react to them. Our parents are there to help us when its tough out there. Committing a suicide is not a way to end our suffering or to solve our problems. It will just cause the family more grief as they have more hopes and dreams about your future. Problems will always be there, and for one not to be hurt, they have to take care of themselves and not allow anyone to control their happiness. as anyone who has been close to someone that has committed suicide knows, there is no other pain like that felt after the incident> life wont always go our way.challenges will always be there.always put God in all your problems and even when you are happy don't forget Him. no parent will want to loose their children to suicide. some suicides are caused by a lot of things like abuse, stress, peer pressure, poor background like poverty. this things are one of the major things that cause most people to commit suicide. Where is the believe and hope?. Can suicide be the last thing on our Minds please. We deserve better and the devil is always smiling when one wants to commit suicide> So shame him....

MOTHERS LOVE IS THE BEST

Source:http://www.motherdaughterpicture.co.za

Her love is beyond anything, beyond words and explanation. It is simply the bestes. All that i am and all that i hope to be, I owe everything to my mother. We all need our mothers. they might have abandoned us in any way but they have their own reason to why they did such. they carried us for nine months, they went through all the troubles of raising us. theres no one like her.Mothers are the best and they are the strongest in the world. they endure a lot. for that they deserve the best of both worlds. respect, love , honour them, they are our strenghs and they know how to keep us happy. My mom is the best and i would not trade her for anything no matter what. fights and arguments may be there but its all because of love and the care that she has. Mom knows and understand the pains that we go through. no language can express the power, and beauty, and heroism and majesty of my mothers love. It  shrinks not where man cowers and grows stronger where man faints, and over wastes of worldly fortunes sends the radiance of its quenchless fidely like a star...that's our Mothers love.

GOSSIP

Source:http//:wwww.imagesofpeople.html

Well the truth is always one thing, but in a way its the other thing, the gossip, that counts its shows where peoples hearts lie. What is the benefit of gossipping?. The tongue of gossip is so strong, that once you have started it wont go out. It is stuck with you. Gossipping may be in terms of jealousy and judgement. No one has the right to gossip about the other as it is not of their problems but they should focus on solving their problems rather than talking about other people unless its about the good achievements that they have done.
as a person of God, be impeccable with your words. speak with integrity, say only what you mean. avoid using the word to speak against your self or to gossip about others. use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love..said Miguel Angel Ruiz. Gossip is the devils radio. It is what no one claims to like, but enjoys. gossip is a rumour that smells dirt. it is never true. when one gossip it shows the true colour of who they are in reality. are you one of those?some trust their friends only to find out that their friends are skimming behind their backs and telling people their private lives and their problem, but they promised not to tell and they have been told because they where trusted. if you have nothing to say about somebody just keep it that way. it is argued that girls gossip more than guys. which is true? and where do you fall? will gossip take you anywhere?

KNOW YOUR WORTH AS A WOMAN

As a woman we are powerful than our legs. we shoul not let them to control us. we deserve better and we know it. For starters men must know where we stand with them. We don't have to let them to control us, just because its how it should be. Yes men are the heads but without the neck which is us the women, They cannot stand. they will fall. They need us woman to be able to stand. Letting them to control our lives, our feelings, our rights its not on. We definitely know our worth. Firstly what i am wearing its not an invitation for men. We deserve the respect, to be treated like women. We deserve the love, the comfort and the honour. Even though we say we need to be treated with respect, we as women need to dress like women to be respected. As women we do not need to compare ourselves with men, though we deserve better. Men cannot leave without women and women cannot also leave without men. We all need to work together and hold hands to get the best out everything. Women are much more powerful than men, that is the honest truth. No men should underestimate the power of a women. As women we are beautiful, smart and we are the best gifts from God. We  love, we honour, we comfort, we appreciate and we help. We don't owe men anything. We are the drivers and they are the passengers. that they should know and live with it. Yes its our Black culture that says men are Superior than women, but that does not mean they should abuse us women. For i am one proud little lady whom knows her worth as a women. do you? don't let them to take over you.

Miss Masina

JEALOUSY

Source:http://www.google.co.za/imgres?q=jealousy.html

Its so much that jealousy can do to a persons life. Being jealous is the same as being selfish.this is a means of not caring to others but only thinking about ones reputation and not others. Once one develops jealousy its a sing that they are always thinking of the negatives or they are always minding other peoples life and forgetting about theirs. they checking on others success and talking about it, whilest they can be doing something that will benefit them too in their lives. "jealousy is the ugliest trade". this is the same as judging other person and that is not what we are brought here on to the world to come and judge others. Most of the people that are jealous tend to be the ones who don't have anything in life. Jealousy is a symptom of insecurity, lack of trust and self confidence and believe. Anger and jealousy can no more bear to loose sight of their objects to love-Gorge Elliot. this can means that once one develops jealousy then it wont be easy to beat Females are likely to be the masters of jealousy, they turn to fight for everything even though sometimes it is useless to do so.They fight for boyfriends like they are married to them or something.

Jealousy is cruel as the grave, the coals thereof are coals of fire. No one ever benefits out of jealousy. stop being jealousy and do something with great value. own up.


Source:http://www.google.co.za/imgres?q=jealousy.html

WHAT A SHAME "sugger daddy"

Source:http://voices.yahoo.com/teen-dating-if-child-dating-older-407562.html?cat=25

What has the world turned into? is this the life of today? why do we choose to live like this? why are we betraying our selves?. The life of today; teenage girls seem to have found love with their elders. this days no one wants to go for their size/age. They all opt for a bigger number. Oh as they say "age is just a number". Imagine a young beautiful girl with a brighter future ahead dating someone whom can be of the same age as their fathers. How will you feel when you find out that your friend is dating your parent? will that be OK with you, knowing very well that your mother is being cheated with a younger girl? this is not the way. So do right by others as you will wish them to do. God said "if you are a married men/women cheating on your behalf then you are committing the worst sin ever" and this also goes to younger girls/guys who are dating married people whom have families and houses to maintain. Who said the money and material is everything, because its ovias that most girls fall in love with this elder men just for money and other material things. You have no shame before God.No respect at all. Some parents let their children to date the older men just to get the benefits too. What are the parents doing to the generation of this time? this is not life at all. At the end we shall all reap what we saw. all you care about is the flashy cars that he brings you with, all the fancy clothes he buys for you, all flashy cellphones you carry. at the end he gets what he wants and leaves you with a tummy and he will be no where to be found. A hard lesson will be leaned. the most hurting thing is those who are dating the elder men do know about the consequences but they still go ahead and later live with the regrets and mostly they end up with the diseases. Be smart and think about the future and those you might hurt.

DONT YOU LEARN?

SOURCE:http://www.pregnantimages.co.za.html

These days it is like teenagers don't know what they want with their lives. they've gone mad, out of control, even parents start to loose hope for their children's future. teenage pregnancy seems to be most wanted fashion clothing ever around. its like no one can resist it. if you don't have a baby you not on, you not cool. what has really been done to this teenagers of this generation?huh?. what are the benefits of being pregnant ans still at school, worse thing you still need your parents to look after you but then you go out and cos more trouble, more work for them. parents at that time will not be working, they are struggling to support you, what will they do with your child? cant you for once think about the future instead of now?Young people often do not know what they're getting into when they have pre-marital sex. i believe that enough education about sexual and pregnancy have been taught. so they know what the consequences are but they still go on and do it. what drug are they taking?. it is hard to raise a child when you still a child, you will need to bother your parents to do your job.Teens haven't developed well enough in themselves to have the responsibility of raising another life. the worst is that even the father of that baby is nowhere to be found or he is denying the baby. this is so annoying really.

BLESSING

Gomolemo

We have them because they are blessings and they give us hope. when ever i see her everything changes, its like they've just bought me something new that i always wanted. " A cloudy day or a little sunshine have as great an influence on many constitutions as the most recent blessings or misfortunes"-Joseph Addison. some blessings are given without expectations. well little Gomo keeps me awake and relaxed, even though she can be too much of a brat/baby. shes one of the persons whom makes my world to go round. shes pretty much everything to me. the bond that i have with her its too much, too tight to break that even her mom complains about it. she is the joy. when ever with me its like the day she was born. one may ask why i so love this little yellow Bone babe, well its because i raised her from birth.she became my first born immediately after she was born, i don't know if you gonna get this but yeah.. she means the world to me, but i don't want her to forget her real mom. the love Ive got for her is just too overwhelming. she is a Blessing to me..shes a jolly person, likes playing too much, loves water to bits, loves her clothes. shes even beautiful, likes people too. shes a total angel.

LIVE LIKE THERE"S NO TOMORROW

Source: http://www.googlesearch.picture of a patying person.co.za

Why do we like to put ourselves in to too much pressure? why do we think like theres no tomorrow? cant we for a moment take time for ourselves and make something out of nothing? I mean we cant always work ourselves out. we need some break. some tome to ourselves. stress free day or moment. We all know that we need to work hard so that we can reap the goods that we have worked for without any complications. do something to free yourself. dance like theres no one watching..lol but don't break your self..be free, lough out loud and don't be shy to show and express your feelings, true feelings. if you are a bad singer then for that moment sing like no one is listening lol...because if you do think like that then you wont end up anywhere. well when you work then work like you don't need the money.be somebody. give back to those who raised you, who made you. love unconditionally like you will never get hurt. don't forget to live like there is no tomorrow. give thanks to those who believe in you. "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming.-Anon. even if you are a student you don't have to starve your self to death just  because you want to get the degree or something. get a break, even two minutes is fine..live like theres no tomorrow...

|

|