NO HEART DESERVES TO BE HURT

True love is rare and it is the only thing that gives life a true meaning. Love hurts so much that one can even think of doing the unthinkable. Sometimes we turn to fall in love with the people that really do not love us but only wants to pass time with us. This day and age love ain't love but it is a game. What really happened to real love? Love is not suppose to hurt, but to make one happy, to create memories, to create life together and a meaning to life.


Please players do not use the word love if you do not mean it. At least not to innocent girls out there. One should learn to love, cherish and honor their partners and not use them for some sort of game. some of us are scared of falling in love due to the things we see. people we love get hurt and most of all we our selves getting hurt more than once. now we dont even know if one is being genuine or they also part of those that wanna pass time.

DADDY MY DADDY "HAPPY FATHERS DAY"

DADDY...
My dad, to be a dad is not only a choice but a gift from God. It is hard but yet a  fulfilling experience. You cannot resign or retire from it. It is a life time job. Happy fathers day dad, Me and Tebogo will forever honour and cherish the love you give us. A day does not pass without you passing our hearts and minds. We truly love you.  You raised us to be good and respectful girls, taught us how to love and appreciate what we have. Watching soccer, news together, making jokes and laughing together, long drives together, and learning how to drive through you. I really have good times with my dad. Bathong nna ke rata ntate waka ka pelo le moya. There's no way I can explain the love I have for him. He never abandoned his kids, he loved and still does love us as if we were born today. May the good Lord grant him more years of life and happiness, Success and may he live to see the day his daughters get married and bring him grand children whom are as supper crazy as ME. I love my dad... He's simply the best and amazing...wouldn't mind marrying a man like him. God bless all the fathers out there whom never abandoned their kids... Happy fathers day daddy once more>>>lots of love from your daughters.. Rebecca and Tebogo

ITS CALLED A BABY MAKING MONTH

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It is that time of the month where most girls fall pregnant. Most of the people call it a baby making month. after the whole month you will see those flat stomachs changing. most of the victims turn out to be the youth. it turns out that they have it in their minds that in June one has to keep their partner warm...lol that's madness according to my opinion, I don't k now about you. you will hear them saying "Go batleha kobo ya mahlo" -( A blanket with eyes is wanted).. where have you seen such mara? lol the world is messed up. youth we controlling this world like we made it, we created it. from being a good looking person with a good personality and also the brains, all of that you throw it away. in all of this, the girls are the ones to be left with the consequence and there is nothing they can do but to deal with it. most of the times, the people whom they where having all fun with in the bed have ran away once they hared that they have a responsibility coming their way. they disappear and make you feel like you never existed in their lives. who will look after you and the baby? at that time you still have school to finish and parents are struggling to raise you and wena you add the load. haibo girls we are capable of doing better than than that. you will hear them saying " ke mistake".. pregnancy ain't a mistake if the two of you agreed to sleep together with or without a condom. girls take responsibility for your actions. lets stop giving our parents heart attacks please

DEATH BE NOT PROUD

The fear of losing someone you dearly love is painful, the wound will never heal. with time things get better but it is not entirely true. losing someone is painful, no words can ever describe or define the feeling. Death is something else. no one likes it yet we are all going there. Sometimes death it is the one that gets us closer to each other, to realize the love that we have for one another. it doesn't matter the person died is the person you know or not but it is the same, death hurts. healing takes time, we need to be strong,. sometimes you would wish that it was you who was taken and not the person whom has left us. it is so painful to see a parent losing their children, they expect us, their children to look after them and be the ones to bury them. suicide is so not good. taking your life is not the answer. murder is also something that can never let anyone to rest.
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At MGI we have lost one of our fellow student, it is so painful to know how we lost her. May her soul Rest In Peace..and May the Lord Grant Justice to all of this.

IN LOVE BUT NOT LOVED

Do you know how much it hurts to be in love with someone whom does not love you back? that hurts big time. Us girls turn to fall for guys that only love us for our appearance, how we look and what we have that might make them happy. We forget about our own happiness and try by all means to make them happy. Well we are strong hence we turn to stay and deal with such. here is one girls story...
well she fell in love with a guy whom she ended up confessing her love to the guy so the guy liked what he saw and said they can start a relationship. The guy knowing that he is not in love with the girl used the girl for his own good and as time went by the girl saw it that she was not loved but she stood by the guy through thick and thin. She stood by when the guy started bringing girls to their place. He was disrespecting her and the girl still stayed there and never said anything hoping that the guy might change and it has been more than 10 years and the girl has a child with the guy and still hopes that the guy will one day change and that doesn't even look like he is even closer to changing...
Moral of the story is a girl you should be able to stand alone and make her own voice heared. never allow to be hurt by someone. Love is still on out there. There are people whom will appreciate you better than that. We know once one loves they do love but really now. Do we have to get our selves into such tragedy?. Sometimes to be happy we have to let go of what we love most.

GREAT WEEKEND ONE HAD

Rebecca Masina
It is not always where one has to have a bad weekend. well this time i really did have a great one.  God loves his kids, He will never abandon them no matter the situation. We always do wrong by Him but He always forgives.. Well there was no life of a DJ this time. so it was me and only me.
For the past weeks I've been experiencing and nursing a very broken heart with a smile. for all of that am done it is time for a new beginning, cant hang on to the past. focus is what i am about. we all somehow go through a lot we just have to find a way to get away from such situations and focus on what is important and can bring you a better life than the last one."I've put a smile on my own face once more".
mostly said to me"Koketso from the broken heart you have, we doubt you gonna move on" lol that wasn't a big deal to me. i mourned for my broken hear and time passed so no need to stress over the past. this is life things are bound to happen...there's still space for another chance of love..yes there is..lol

ONE NIGHT STAND


What is the point in leading someone on or a one night stand? I dont get it, what do you really gain from that a celebrity status, or some kind of power? 
Batho ba rata dilo klaar...Haikhona girl, the minute you get to be someone’s one night stand, just know you done...you’ve lost your true sense. The worst part is you giving all the girls the same name you possess as a one night stand. Have you ever heard them talking about you? How useless you are? Not to mention dumb...yet you still go there and end up being a one night stand. Keng do you enjoy it? Are you not happy with what you currently have? Aowa wena, ere dithlong digo thlabe nyana. Oh kana you think wena you can get every guy you want and at anytime...lol wae phora ka nnete.
The ultimate one-night stand can be hot as hell, totally thrilling, and gone before you know it, but where is your conscience? Are you well though? A one night stand is too risky, it can be with or without protection...most people turn to deny that bona kedi one night stand lol you can’t hide the truth for ever girl.. You also friend zone them so they will make you a one night stand.
I for one have never heard that being faithful to your partner has killed anyone.This actually saves more lives than one night stands. In most cases one night stands are found at taverns, clubs and parties and they turn to leave a very big mark at the end. It is either a baby, a diseases or another big story to tell. Wake up ladies...don’t only be beautiful but also be smart. We can’t always get what we want and we must learn to accept that situation. God has plans for everyone just that you people turn to lose hope so fast.
“It is fun while you're doing it, you finish in like 5 minutes, and you feel real cheap afterwards” this is really true. And I would like to believe it. How do you feel knowing that you have slept with someone whom you only know by name and you not even sure if that’s his real name? What are you going to say after the sex?huh you don’t even have a relationship with that person and for that, that very same person may be having his very own love of his life.. kanti why do you keep taking your dignity down? Keng beer and fun is the way neh? Yoh ai...
“PHAPHAMA”
Signed Masina Rebecca

LOOSE GIRL


OK sharp sharp you are beautiful and have all the things that everyone can desire to have, but remember beauty never bought anyone wealth and beauty without brains it is nothing. The brains are the ones that works for one. In life you can’t use your beauty to get away with everything. Work and hustling is only the way.
Ccza every guy wants you because of you lose and not your brains, all this shows that they only want to get into your skirt, yet you still allow them to do that. Where are your brains?you deserve more than that. Every taxi that passes you, every expensive car that stops next to you, you talk to the driver, make appointments of where you will be later with the guy. All that matters to you its good clothes, latest fashion, booze, parties and money.
Are you aware that your dignity is being taken down? What about yourself respect, where have you taken it? Slowly but surely the next thing when they will be done with you, they will leave you and forget about you, forget even your existence. Leaving you pregnant and helpless. Chances are you might even have caught a disease. Nice time it’s all good but when you know how to play your card though it is not advisable to anyone. We all want happiness and good things but the right way is the way to go. Short cuts will never get you anywhere...
Every guy says they have tasted you, not even a single one would say they haven’t. They all have a story to tell about you. You are an embarrassment to your parents not mentioning the whole family. Take note, you are a gal and can do more than that...

I AM A DREAMER

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Well I am a big fan of big and fast machines. I know it is weird for a girl to be so in love and crazy about cars and speed. Well I guess I am different. Anyways we are all different in our own way and unique too. This article i self dedicate. Ive always wanted to test drive a ford focus st 2010 model and guess what???finally I did. One of my good friends whom did not find it easy letting me test drive his car finally I managed to convinced him to let me drive it. whoa!!! before I tell about my experience, let me say this.... Damn this car is a machine, one of the best machines I've ever tested. Surely and maybe there are other machines too better than this one but hey this is one is the one for me. It may not my dream car but hey this car is magic. The interior is leather, gear knob runs up to 6 OMG the wheels are magic, very super. it is like you in a spaceship. for my self and for the love of speed id recommend not to buy such a car...I would not survive long. Well OK my experience....felt like I am on another planet, like I am in a machine that flies. First gear its like the 3 gear of a Nissan, my car.I for one dream bigger than this, and I believe I can do it in every way only if i believe. You too can still dream bigger than this. This is not only about fast cars and beautiful ones but also about life, how it is easy to lose it because of unnecessary things. Don't let your down. Be a dreamer and Dream BIG. Even though it is not the original one and the original colour I still BOW DOWN to the creators of Ford....

GET OVER IT



Why look back when there is a brighter future ahead of you? Like really, are you going to cry over spoiled milk? What guarantee do you have that whatever you have left back there, will be the same when you return back? Is it worth it though? Move on, its life and it happens. We can’t always have everything that we want in life and besides the best things are worth waiting for... so relax and move on
Life won’t always be about you, not everything will rotate around you sweets. So better get over it and move on. The beauty of life is that you are not the only precious soul available but there are a lot of them, with you it was just a learning curve and I for say thanks for the lesson. There aint no going back. Once beaten twice as shy... No need to go begging for a second chance because that second chance will lead to a third one and so on, then who will be fooled there?. You keep hurting yourself for nothing.
Fun is what you always had, happiness is what one gave you and always considered you first at all times, but for now it is time to get over it...Life is too precious to be hanged up on someone whom doesn’t even for a second think of you. GET OVER IT

A WOMEN'S DIGNITY



As a women you suppose to carry yourself with respect at all times. Show your true leadership and not allow to be dictated by anyone. In Sepedi it is said “Mosadi o tshwara thipa ka bogaleng”, a women holds a knife on the sharp side. Temptations will always be there but a woman should stay strong and resist them. It is said that a women’s dignity is her husband, do you believe that? Well not all of us are in relationships yet we still maintain our dignity.
What happened to all of that? Today you cannot differentiate between a young girl and a woman. Girls will be sleeping with elder men whom are the same age as their parents, hoping to get all the good things in life, ride in flashy big cars, go shopping to expensive shops , eat expensive food at some expensive restaurants but all of that in return you have to sleep around with them. Where is your dignity there? You should be at school doing something about your dreams, goals for the future. Is that older man to marry you or he is just using you as his sex slave? Remember he has a family at home, a wife and kids. Why are you turning yourself into a home wrecker?
Women, whom we should be calling our parents sometimes, are the one that pressure their kids into having sugar daddies. We expect our parents to raise us to be the better people of tomorrow, know how to respect others especially our life partners but how can that happen when our parents are going out with our friends, guys our age and they call them ‘’abo Ben Ten’’...where is self respect and dignity there?...Life can amaze you...how do you live with that kodwa? When you pray what do you say to God? Are you honest though?
Women you are stronger than that. You can do more than that. You carry the world yes and you can run it. As a writer I am not saying men must be treated somehow and am not saying women are weak, but all am saying is women can do better.  As a woman you are more powerful than words.

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