KNOW YOUR WORTH AS A WOMAN

As a woman we are powerful than our legs. we shoul not let them to control us. we deserve better and we know it. For starters men must know where we stand with them. We don't have to let them to control us, just because its how it should be. Yes men are the heads but without the neck which is us the women, They cannot stand. they will fall. They need us woman to be able to stand. Letting them to control our lives, our feelings, our rights its not on. We definitely know our worth. Firstly what i am wearing its not an invitation for men. We deserve the respect, to be treated like women. We deserve the love, the comfort and the honour. Even though we say we need to be treated with respect, we as women need to dress like women to be respected. As women we do not need to compare ourselves with men, though we deserve better. Men cannot leave without women and women cannot also leave without men. We all need to work together and hold hands to get the best out everything. Women are much more powerful than men, that is the honest truth. No men should underestimate the power of a women. As women we are beautiful, smart and we are the best gifts from God. We  love, we honour, we comfort, we appreciate and we help. We don't owe men anything. We are the drivers and they are the passengers. that they should know and live with it. Yes its our Black culture that says men are Superior than women, but that does not mean they should abuse us women. For i am one proud little lady whom knows her worth as a women. do you? don't let them to take over you.

Miss Masina

JEALOUSY

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Its so much that jealousy can do to a persons life. Being jealous is the same as being selfish.this is a means of not caring to others but only thinking about ones reputation and not others. Once one develops jealousy its a sing that they are always thinking of the negatives or they are always minding other peoples life and forgetting about theirs. they checking on others success and talking about it, whilest they can be doing something that will benefit them too in their lives. "jealousy is the ugliest trade". this is the same as judging other person and that is not what we are brought here on to the world to come and judge others. Most of the people that are jealous tend to be the ones who don't have anything in life. Jealousy is a symptom of insecurity, lack of trust and self confidence and believe. Anger and jealousy can no more bear to loose sight of their objects to love-Gorge Elliot. this can means that once one develops jealousy then it wont be easy to beat Females are likely to be the masters of jealousy, they turn to fight for everything even though sometimes it is useless to do so.They fight for boyfriends like they are married to them or something.

Jealousy is cruel as the grave, the coals thereof are coals of fire. No one ever benefits out of jealousy. stop being jealousy and do something with great value. own up.


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WHAT A SHAME "sugger daddy"

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What has the world turned into? is this the life of today? why do we choose to live like this? why are we betraying our selves?. The life of today; teenage girls seem to have found love with their elders. this days no one wants to go for their size/age. They all opt for a bigger number. Oh as they say "age is just a number". Imagine a young beautiful girl with a brighter future ahead dating someone whom can be of the same age as their fathers. How will you feel when you find out that your friend is dating your parent? will that be OK with you, knowing very well that your mother is being cheated with a younger girl? this is not the way. So do right by others as you will wish them to do. God said "if you are a married men/women cheating on your behalf then you are committing the worst sin ever" and this also goes to younger girls/guys who are dating married people whom have families and houses to maintain. Who said the money and material is everything, because its ovias that most girls fall in love with this elder men just for money and other material things. You have no shame before God.No respect at all. Some parents let their children to date the older men just to get the benefits too. What are the parents doing to the generation of this time? this is not life at all. At the end we shall all reap what we saw. all you care about is the flashy cars that he brings you with, all the fancy clothes he buys for you, all flashy cellphones you carry. at the end he gets what he wants and leaves you with a tummy and he will be no where to be found. A hard lesson will be leaned. the most hurting thing is those who are dating the elder men do know about the consequences but they still go ahead and later live with the regrets and mostly they end up with the diseases. Be smart and think about the future and those you might hurt.

DONT YOU LEARN?

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These days it is like teenagers don't know what they want with their lives. they've gone mad, out of control, even parents start to loose hope for their children's future. teenage pregnancy seems to be most wanted fashion clothing ever around. its like no one can resist it. if you don't have a baby you not on, you not cool. what has really been done to this teenagers of this generation?huh?. what are the benefits of being pregnant ans still at school, worse thing you still need your parents to look after you but then you go out and cos more trouble, more work for them. parents at that time will not be working, they are struggling to support you, what will they do with your child? cant you for once think about the future instead of now?Young people often do not know what they're getting into when they have pre-marital sex. i believe that enough education about sexual and pregnancy have been taught. so they know what the consequences are but they still go on and do it. what drug are they taking?. it is hard to raise a child when you still a child, you will need to bother your parents to do your job.Teens haven't developed well enough in themselves to have the responsibility of raising another life. the worst is that even the father of that baby is nowhere to be found or he is denying the baby. this is so annoying really.

BLESSING

Gomolemo

We have them because they are blessings and they give us hope. when ever i see her everything changes, its like they've just bought me something new that i always wanted. " A cloudy day or a little sunshine have as great an influence on many constitutions as the most recent blessings or misfortunes"-Joseph Addison. some blessings are given without expectations. well little Gomo keeps me awake and relaxed, even though she can be too much of a brat/baby. shes one of the persons whom makes my world to go round. shes pretty much everything to me. the bond that i have with her its too much, too tight to break that even her mom complains about it. she is the joy. when ever with me its like the day she was born. one may ask why i so love this little yellow Bone babe, well its because i raised her from birth.she became my first born immediately after she was born, i don't know if you gonna get this but yeah.. she means the world to me, but i don't want her to forget her real mom. the love Ive got for her is just too overwhelming. she is a Blessing to me..shes a jolly person, likes playing too much, loves water to bits, loves her clothes. shes even beautiful, likes people too. shes a total angel.

LIVE LIKE THERE"S NO TOMORROW

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Why do we like to put ourselves in to too much pressure? why do we think like theres no tomorrow? cant we for a moment take time for ourselves and make something out of nothing? I mean we cant always work ourselves out. we need some break. some tome to ourselves. stress free day or moment. We all know that we need to work hard so that we can reap the goods that we have worked for without any complications. do something to free yourself. dance like theres no one watching..lol but don't break your self..be free, lough out loud and don't be shy to show and express your feelings, true feelings. if you are a bad singer then for that moment sing like no one is listening lol...because if you do think like that then you wont end up anywhere. well when you work then work like you don't need the money.be somebody. give back to those who raised you, who made you. love unconditionally like you will never get hurt. don't forget to live like there is no tomorrow. give thanks to those who believe in you. "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming.-Anon. even if you are a student you don't have to starve your self to death just  because you want to get the degree or something. get a break, even two minutes is fine..live like theres no tomorrow...

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FREEDOM DAY

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What i freedom day to you?what memories does it bring?how do you even commemorate it?. this are the questions that one should ask themselves.  Freedom Day to me is a public holiday celebrated on April 27. We celebrate freedom and commemorate the first post struggles we had and that where held on that day in 1994." under the law of nature, all men are born free. every one comes into the world with a right to his own person-Thomas Jefferson. for this day people are commemorate it wrong. according to my own perspective view i think freedom day is about paying respect to those who fought for us to live this way today. it is not about getting drunk and doing all the negative thing's that may end up in a fight or might end one of us at hospital or something. this nation will remain the land of the free only as it the home of the brave. we have to love and honour those whom made it possible for us to live like this today. the fighters of the struggle and freedom. the fact is that freedom to be meaningful in an organised society must consist of an amalgam of hierarchy of freedoms and restrains-Samuel Hendel.. for this people enjoy your Freedom day and stay safe at all times...

WHAT WENT WRONG?

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What has gone wrong? we as the people have lost love for each other. all we can think of is "HATRED" and nothing positive. are we all here for that?what do we actually gain from hatred? does it satisfy us? does it give us all power and control?. We all know that we don't have to rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can't love and respect yourself, no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are completely; the good and the bad and make changes as you see fit and not because you think someone else wants you to be different. for this days everything seems to be cold. people hate each other and they try by all means to get into each others nerves. try to make other peoples lives miserable. i mean can you think of something that will benefit you and your future and focus on it?."Life is filled with so many exciting twists and turns. Hop off the straight and narrow whenever you can and take the winding paths. Experience the exhilaration of the view from the edge. Because the moments spent there, that take your breath away, are what make you feel truly alive"-Stacy Charter.
fight for what is right and not for pride and ego. love and respect others and you will see how wonders of the world will work out for you. stop hurting one another with useless and meaningless things. words can be hurting too and they can make one to commit to very deadly commitments like drugs, suicide's and to name a few. think for others as you will like them to do too.

MUSIC MOVES ME

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Music can do a lot to a person, especially if they are into music and they love good music. for me Music is life, music is movement its like a Serenade to me. coming to music I am a big fan of it. Music defines me. when ever good music is played, the real me appears. I come to live. well there is a lot of music available. we all have our own interest in music. some people listen to some kind of music and it helps them to relax. I for one listen and prefers Deep House Music which is a slower variation of house music, typically with beats registering at about 120 BPM. Soothing hypnotic melodies combine with a steady rhythm, enough to put anyone in a trance. Deep House artists include Kevin Yost, MK and Gemini. The type of music i listen to makes me to be at my weakest point, weakest moment. its where my true love of music comes out. Makes me to do the unthinkable. I would wish to create my own beats , my own rhythm. I would love to make people to dance, to feel the love. everyone prefers their own type of music. I salute House Music..everywhere i go, i always listen to music, i am always wearing/having my headsets on. when i forget my earpieces i feel weak,lonely and sometimes my moods change to someone that i don't like and understands. In short i can say music is me, music is my passion, Music Moves Me. What  moves you? What keeps you going?

FOR THE LOVE OF FOOTBALL

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For I am I football fan and Mamelodi Sundowns is the team that I chose to follow and fell in love with it. Football makes my world to go round. no matter how my team plays, I am always behind them. football is one of the sports that dominated the world, that gets everybody talking. for I when I start talking the football language I can not control my self but can talk the whole day. I love soccer. One can even think that i am football. the rules of football are simple, basically it is this: if it moves, kick it. if it doesn't move, kick it until it does" says Phil Woosman. foot ball is one thing that can bring the world together. There is nothing like "football is for man/guys..even girls/woman are for the sport. I loved football since I was born, Daddy used to take me with to stadiums to watch it and he used to play with me and show me some moves, since then I never stopped watching and playing soccer. I eat football, I sleep football, I breath football and I am not mad I am just passionate about it. One can even tell that when it is football season, half of the world is gripped by football mania. I am a downs fan and that ain't close to changing anytime soon. Today Sundowns is playing against Maritzburg United for the Nedbank cup Quoter finals. I just know we will win lol. 'Team Downs. Whats yours?

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GREAT EASTER WE HAD

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what a great Easter one had. It was fun, loving and it was worth it. Who could say no to such a great time once in a while? We had lots of fun. We met different people from different places. We took endless photographs..The "Rand Easter Show" great place to be and to relax with friends and relatives. This is part of my happiness.  Happiness is anything good that makes one to smile or laugh. Happiness is not only a feeling that we have but something that is long there that just has to be unleashed not only through materialistic measures of life but through a deeper being or the spirit within us. Some may have gone to church to give their thanks to the Mighty one, and some might have chosen another way of celebrating this day.I chose to start my day with a prayer then to spend it on the Rand Show. What an epic day we had. Happy Easter y'll