WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR CULTURE?



source: rebecca masina

This century seems like we have given up on our culture. our forefathers are acting in their graves literally so. its like they don't matter anymore.A nation's culture resides in the hearts and in the soul of its people.women of this days have changed, they are the heads of the house holds. they do men's jobs and a lot to mention. this is why this days there is no difference between man and women. women command  men to do some of the house hold jobs. they also talk back at them. at first it used to men who would head up the house and make sure the security is tight. now woman are in charge and some say they are tired of being left alone and that they need to be busy and they are tired of being looked down and turned into maids and all  baby makers. this shows that women are able to become independent too but for how long? and where have the morals gone to? does the bible say women are allowed to rule?if so where in the bible?. OK the clothes that we wear this days, this times, this generation... are they of out culture or of the western culture? why are we embracing the western peoples culture and not ours? ain't we proud to be what we are? OK sharp we look sexy and all that in the western clothes but until when? we not saying people should wear what our forefathers were wearing but try to take your culture into consideration. you will grow and become better. a women should and must wear like a women and not imitate a men... am i right?????huh huh huh?say something!!!Ag man just for once think and don't be dictated by some other people. do what you think is right for you. at the end the choice is yours. a women should not reveal all her parts of the body... take initiative.

MY UNIVERSITY LIFE

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Oh yes I am a student at MGI. Ever since I enrolled at this institution life has been very different. I've been here since 2010 and now I am doing my third year and nothing is easy but with love and dedication nothing is impossible. we are what we do, excellence, therefor, is not an act but a habit meaning that when ever I feel down and unable to do my work I think twice and get motivated. for my self I always put my trust ad believe on God. what ever work that I do at school I also add him within my work. well first around this school what I first noticed is that students love fashion and entertainment a lot but at the same time they make it a point that they do their work and submit within the allocated time. for me its the same but slightly different because I don't do fashion or get exposed to entertainment that they mostly get to be. within the years that I've been here things have happened. well the good and the bad. disappointment's and disagreements were also part of it. this is all that we know gets to happen to everyone. well I also found love, which was something that I did not think that I will get. theres got to be time for everything. have to manage them all, but we all know that books and boys don't work together. MGI is a very small institute, one can know the whole school within a year. classes are very small which I like and mostly I can access my lecturers at anytime and they are there to help too. not much of sports is taking place. me would have loved to join the volley ball team but unfortunately I've got no idea where to go. its kinda complicated. well all I can say is MGI rocks besides the fact that its too expensive but a good school to continue with your studies.

MY PURPLE WATCH

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My love for purple wrist watches is way beyond my control. every time when i see one i go crazy and to me its like a habit. i might not have much of the purple watches but am definitely a freak of them. beautiful purple watches just completes ma day. i smile when i see one. every time i go shopping i end up looking for one and craving to own one. i like to believe that am not sexually frustrated as most say people who like the colour purple are most to be the ones that are sexually frustrated. purple purple purple...that is my first favourite colour. i just have grown to love it. everybody have their own favourite colours and they have their own reasons to why they love them. as people we different and unique in our own ways. a day without the watch fells like am weak, got no energy and that i am useless. my watch completes me> i just love the colour and its even grown to the level that when ever i dress i make sure that nothing purple is left out. that is my favourite colour and it defines me in my own way.

CHASING DEAMS WITH PASSION

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Have you always wondered what you want to become in the next coming years? the dreams that you are already chasing are they worth it though?. life is so precious, so live it to the fullest where you wont have any regrets when its late. Its good to enjoy your childhood and have dreams to chase. being a no dreamer does not help at all and it makes one to end up being nothing and mostly resulting into gangs and doing all those bad stuff. As an individual its good to allow your self to dream and to give your self a chance to make it to the next level. Do not live to prove other people wrong but live to make your self happy at all times and be sure that you are satisfied with everything that you get. Learn not to depend on others people but be self independent. Being Rebeca Masina that i am, i am looking forward to getting my dreams into reality. Well i love music, love making people to dance and relax to good music, so being a house DJ will definitely be what am chasing and i am also into Radio and Public Relations. With the passion that i have i so believe that i will make it and my dreams will come true. not everyone will agree to helping you to get your dreams into actions so the first thing that you should do is to ask God the Creator and He will lead you all the way. Nothing beats a prayer. At times i learn to be self motivated because some people will not like what you are doing. life is too short>>>>who said that  huh??????do you believe that?. in life everyone has a choice< its either you chase down your dreams or you let them to pass by and you become nothing in this world. It is better for one to work for themselves because you may not know what tomorrow brings to one.Never try to step on someones head to get it easy to the top because when you fall its gonna be very hard. focus on the positivity of life and not the negatives. Believe and don't doubt your self..you can do it no matter what kind of background you are from. nothing is impossible unless you make it to be. I am Masina and i believe do you???

THEY CALL THEMSELVES PLAYERS

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They call themselves the best. where ever they go they have someone whom they call a lover or mistress. what is the price of being a player? Being a heart breaker never made a person the best or the greatest, but a nuisance. why cant you stay single if you don't get what the word love means? hurting people has never got anyone a medal or a trophy. why cheat when at first you agreed you wont do that? how will you feel when your partner does that to you? is it worth it though? if you don't love anymore just tell the person the truth and move on with a clean heart and start on a fresh page.Be careful whose toes you step on today because they might be connected to the foot that kicks your ass tomorrow". no one likes being played. what goes around comes around. think before you something that you know when they do to you you wont like or appreciate"So many People take life for granted..but what happened on Sep. 11, 2001 is great proof that what we have might not be here tomorrow! So live everyday like your last...cherish your friends and family and keep them close in your hearts. May God be with those who died, are injured, and have family that aren't here with us today." having many partners especially sexual partners has been gave anyone the god results of it. what has our lives changed to?why are we doing this?. it might be good at the first when doing it and it may feel good but then it never ends good. have mercy for other people. you cal your self a good person whom can get every girl you want at any time. yo come with flashy cars and all that you charm them with money and accessories then end up hurting them when they find out that you are either married or have kids and all that and they are suffering while you are throwing money like that> theres nothing that doesn't have an end> think twice....

WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ME

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We are not the same and we will never no matter what happens be of the same. We are indeed equal and of the same creator but we will never be the same. Some are not gifted the way you are or the way you may be, so making your self better than others. I am and I might be poor but that doesn't mean have the right to judge me and make conclusions about me and my life. Who are you and who sent you? I am who i am today because God, if it was not for Him I wouldn't have been here. let me be and let me live the way my God wants me to. OK  sharp, you rich,you can get what you want in an instant,you intelligent, got the brains and all that, yah God gave you that but He did not give you the reason and the allowance to come and judge me. you really have no right to that. Oh by the way everything in life that you do have consequences so beware of what you do to others, because your day might also come. I keep praying that God forgives you for all the things that you have done to me as I for one has done that. We are not given as much as you are. Stop judging me. I have not done anything to you and I don't believe that I owe you anything. Ive lost hope, love, and trust in me because you keep judging me, you keep belittling me. Ive come to believe that yes I am dumb and I cannot do anything in life and I cannot achieve anything. You made me to believe that I am of no use to this world and to my little knowledge I turned to believe that not seeing the light that you are actually judging me. The Glory must be sought after. Stop judging me.

FRIENDSHIP:WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE

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Friends are what is believed to be always by your side through thick and thin. This days things have changed, all they are now is backstabbers. nothing is the same anymore. the people you trust seems to be the ones who betray the trust that we have for them. a friend is one who knows you and love you at the same time. A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity.

A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity.
Drawing the line should not be that hard as we have to understand each other and respect the decisions that they have taken. Respect, love shouldnt be of worry but this days its like one has to woprk more even do the unneccessary just to get the love. a friend to all is a friend to none. you can never tell if they are worth trusting or not."a true story: i for one had to deal with the fraiends whom were not honest to each other, so i had to be caught in the middle. jusr because of their insercurities one has to do something just to get them together. friends are hard to keep this days.

A friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil; but it needs a little mulch of letters and phone calls and small, silly presents every so often - just to save it from drying out completely.

SUICIDE AND TEENAGERS

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Why do we do that? what lead us to such thinking? There is nothing that hurt our parents more than committing suicide and leaving them with no reason to what led you to commit it. As teenagers we grow to have more in our minds and hearts. We just need to control how we react to them. Our parents are there to help us when its tough out there. Committing a suicide is not a way to end our suffering or to solve our problems. It will just cause the family more grief as they have more hopes and dreams about your future. Problems will always be there, and for one not to be hurt, they have to take care of themselves and not allow anyone to control their happiness. as anyone who has been close to someone that has committed suicide knows, there is no other pain like that felt after the incident> life wont always go our way.challenges will always be there.always put God in all your problems and even when you are happy don't forget Him. no parent will want to loose their children to suicide. some suicides are caused by a lot of things like abuse, stress, peer pressure, poor background like poverty. this things are one of the major things that cause most people to commit suicide. Where is the believe and hope?. Can suicide be the last thing on our Minds please. We deserve better and the devil is always smiling when one wants to commit suicide> So shame him....

MOTHERS LOVE IS THE BEST

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Her love is beyond anything, beyond words and explanation. It is simply the bestes. All that i am and all that i hope to be, I owe everything to my mother. We all need our mothers. they might have abandoned us in any way but they have their own reason to why they did such. they carried us for nine months, they went through all the troubles of raising us. theres no one like her.Mothers are the best and they are the strongest in the world. they endure a lot. for that they deserve the best of both worlds. respect, love , honour them, they are our strenghs and they know how to keep us happy. My mom is the best and i would not trade her for anything no matter what. fights and arguments may be there but its all because of love and the care that she has. Mom knows and understand the pains that we go through. no language can express the power, and beauty, and heroism and majesty of my mothers love. It  shrinks not where man cowers and grows stronger where man faints, and over wastes of worldly fortunes sends the radiance of its quenchless fidely like a star...that's our Mothers love.

GOSSIP

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Well the truth is always one thing, but in a way its the other thing, the gossip, that counts its shows where peoples hearts lie. What is the benefit of gossipping?. The tongue of gossip is so strong, that once you have started it wont go out. It is stuck with you. Gossipping may be in terms of jealousy and judgement. No one has the right to gossip about the other as it is not of their problems but they should focus on solving their problems rather than talking about other people unless its about the good achievements that they have done.
as a person of God, be impeccable with your words. speak with integrity, say only what you mean. avoid using the word to speak against your self or to gossip about others. use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love..said Miguel Angel Ruiz. Gossip is the devils radio. It is what no one claims to like, but enjoys. gossip is a rumour that smells dirt. it is never true. when one gossip it shows the true colour of who they are in reality. are you one of those?some trust their friends only to find out that their friends are skimming behind their backs and telling people their private lives and their problem, but they promised not to tell and they have been told because they where trusted. if you have nothing to say about somebody just keep it that way. it is argued that girls gossip more than guys. which is true? and where do you fall? will gossip take you anywhere?

KNOW YOUR WORTH AS A WOMAN

As a woman we are powerful than our legs. we shoul not let them to control us. we deserve better and we know it. For starters men must know where we stand with them. We don't have to let them to control us, just because its how it should be. Yes men are the heads but without the neck which is us the women, They cannot stand. they will fall. They need us woman to be able to stand. Letting them to control our lives, our feelings, our rights its not on. We definitely know our worth. Firstly what i am wearing its not an invitation for men. We deserve the respect, to be treated like women. We deserve the love, the comfort and the honour. Even though we say we need to be treated with respect, we as women need to dress like women to be respected. As women we do not need to compare ourselves with men, though we deserve better. Men cannot leave without women and women cannot also leave without men. We all need to work together and hold hands to get the best out everything. Women are much more powerful than men, that is the honest truth. No men should underestimate the power of a women. As women we are beautiful, smart and we are the best gifts from God. We  love, we honour, we comfort, we appreciate and we help. We don't owe men anything. We are the drivers and they are the passengers. that they should know and live with it. Yes its our Black culture that says men are Superior than women, but that does not mean they should abuse us women. For i am one proud little lady whom knows her worth as a women. do you? don't let them to take over you.

Miss Masina