The fear of losing someone you dearly love is painful, the wound will never heal. with time things get better but it is not entirely true. losing someone is painful, no words can ever describe or define the feeling. Death is something else. no one likes it yet we are all going there. Sometimes death it is the one that gets us closer to each other, to realize the love that we have for one another. it doesn't matter the person died is the person you know or not but it is the same, death hurts. healing takes time, we need to be strong,. sometimes you would wish that it was you who was taken and not the person whom has left us. it is so painful to see a parent losing their children, they expect us, their children to look after them and be the ones to bury them. suicide is so not good. taking your life is not the answer. murder is also something that can never let anyone to rest.
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At MGI we have lost one of our fellow student, it is so painful to know how we lost her. May her soul Rest In Peace..and May the Lord Grant Justice to all of this.
IN LOVE BUT NOT LOVED
Do you know how much it hurts to be in love with someone whom does not love you back? that hurts big time. Us girls turn to fall for guys that only love us for our appearance, how we look and what we have that might make them happy. We forget about our own happiness and try by all means to make them happy. Well we are strong hence we turn to stay and deal with such. here is one girls story...
well she fell in love with a guy whom she ended up confessing her love to the guy so the guy liked what he saw and said they can start a relationship. The guy knowing that he is not in love with the girl used the girl for his own good and as time went by the girl saw it that she was not loved but she stood by the guy through thick and thin. She stood by when the guy started bringing girls to their place. He was disrespecting her and the girl still stayed there and never said anything hoping that the guy might change and it has been more than 10 years and the girl has a child with the guy and still hopes that the guy will one day change and that doesn't even look like he is even closer to changing...
Moral of the story is a girl you should be able to stand alone and make her own voice heared. never allow to be hurt by someone. Love is still on out there. There are people whom will appreciate you better than that. We know once one loves they do love but really now. Do we have to get our selves into such tragedy?. Sometimes to be happy we have to let go of what we love most.
well she fell in love with a guy whom she ended up confessing her love to the guy so the guy liked what he saw and said they can start a relationship. The guy knowing that he is not in love with the girl used the girl for his own good and as time went by the girl saw it that she was not loved but she stood by the guy through thick and thin. She stood by when the guy started bringing girls to their place. He was disrespecting her and the girl still stayed there and never said anything hoping that the guy might change and it has been more than 10 years and the girl has a child with the guy and still hopes that the guy will one day change and that doesn't even look like he is even closer to changing...
Moral of the story is a girl you should be able to stand alone and make her own voice heared. never allow to be hurt by someone. Love is still on out there. There are people whom will appreciate you better than that. We know once one loves they do love but really now. Do we have to get our selves into such tragedy?. Sometimes to be happy we have to let go of what we love most.
GREAT WEEKEND ONE HAD
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| Rebecca Masina |
For the past weeks I've been experiencing and nursing a very broken heart with a smile. for all of that am done it is time for a new beginning, cant hang on to the past. focus is what i am about. we all somehow go through a lot we just have to find a way to get away from such situations and focus on what is important and can bring you a better life than the last one."I've put a smile on my own face once more".
mostly said to me"Koketso from the broken heart you have, we doubt you gonna move on" lol that wasn't a big deal to me. i mourned for my broken hear and time passed so no need to stress over the past. this is life things are bound to happen...there's still space for another chance of love..yes there is..lol
ONE NIGHT STAND
What is the point in leading someone on or a one night stand? I dont get it, what do you really gain from that a celebrity status, or some kind of power?
Batho ba rata dilo klaar...Haikhona girl, the minute you get to be someone’s one night stand, just know you done...you’ve lost your true sense. The worst part is you giving all the girls the same name you possess as a one night stand. Have you ever heard them talking about you? How useless you are? Not to mention dumb...yet you still go there and end up being a one night stand. Keng do you enjoy it? Are you not happy with what you currently have? Aowa wena, ere dithlong digo thlabe nyana. Oh kana you think wena you can get every guy you want and at anytime...lol wae phora ka nnete.
The ultimate one-night stand can be hot as hell, totally thrilling, and gone before you know it, but where is your conscience? Are you well though? A one night stand is too risky, it can be with or without protection...most people turn to deny that bona kedi one night stand lol you can’t hide the truth for ever girl.. You also friend zone them so they will make you a one night stand.
I for one have never heard that being faithful to your partner has killed anyone.This actually saves more lives than one night stands. In most cases one night stands are found at taverns, clubs and parties and they turn to leave a very big mark at the end. It is either a baby, a diseases or another big story to tell. Wake up ladies...don’t only be beautiful but also be smart. We can’t always get what we want and we must learn to accept that situation. God has plans for everyone just that you people turn to lose hope so fast.
“It is fun while you're doing it, you finish in like 5 minutes, and you feel real cheap afterwards” this is really true. And I would like to believe it. How do you feel knowing that you have slept with someone whom you only know by name and you not even sure if that’s his real name? What are you going to say after the sex?huh you don’t even have a relationship with that person and for that, that very same person may be having his very own love of his life.. kanti why do you keep taking your dignity down? Keng beer and fun is the way neh? Yoh ai...
“PHAPHAMA”
Signed Masina Rebecca
LOOSE GIRL
OK sharp sharp you are beautiful
and have all the things that everyone can desire to have, but remember beauty
never bought anyone wealth and beauty without brains it is nothing. The brains
are the ones that works for one. In life you can’t use your beauty to get away
with everything. Work and hustling is only the way.
Ccza every guy wants you because
of you lose and not your brains, all this shows that they only want to get into
your skirt, yet you still allow them to do that. Where are your brains?you
deserve more than that. Every taxi that passes you, every expensive car that
stops next to you, you talk to the driver, make appointments of where you will
be later with the guy. All that matters to you its good clothes, latest fashion,
booze, parties and money.
Are you aware that your dignity
is being taken down? What about yourself respect, where have you taken it? Slowly
but surely the next thing when they will be done with you, they will leave you
and forget about you, forget even your existence. Leaving you pregnant and
helpless. Chances are you might even have caught a disease. Nice time it’s all
good but when you know how to play your card though it is not advisable to
anyone. We all want happiness and good things but the right way is the way to
go. Short cuts will never get you anywhere...
Every guy says they have
tasted you, not even a single one would say they haven’t. They all have a story
to tell about you. You are an embarrassment to your parents not mentioning the
whole family. Take note, you are a gal and can do more than that...
I AM A DREAMER
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GET OVER IT
Why look back when there is
a brighter future ahead of you? Like really, are you going to cry over spoiled
milk? What guarantee do you have that whatever you have left back there, will
be the same when you return back? Is it worth it though? Move on, its life and
it happens. We can’t always have everything that we want in life and besides
the best things are worth waiting for... so relax and move on
Life won’t always be about
you, not everything will rotate around you sweets. So better get over it and
move on. The beauty of life is that you are not the only precious soul
available but there are a lot of them, with you it was just a learning curve
and I for say thanks for the lesson. There aint no going back. Once beaten
twice as shy... No need to go begging for a second chance because that second
chance will lead to a third one and so on, then who will be fooled there?. You keep
hurting yourself for nothing.
Fun is what you always had,
happiness is what one gave you and always considered you first at all times,
but for now it is time to get over it...Life is too precious to be hanged up on
someone whom doesn’t even for a second think of you. GET OVER IT
A WOMEN'S DIGNITY
As a women you suppose to
carry yourself with respect at all times. Show your true leadership and not
allow to be dictated by anyone. In Sepedi it is said “Mosadi o tshwara thipa ka
bogaleng”, a women holds a knife on the sharp side. Temptations will always be
there but a woman should stay strong and resist them. It is said that a women’s
dignity is her husband, do you believe that? Well not all of us are in
relationships yet we still maintain our dignity.
What happened to all of that?
Today you cannot differentiate between a young girl and a woman. Girls will be
sleeping with elder men whom are the same age as their parents, hoping to get
all the good things in life, ride in flashy big cars, go shopping to expensive
shops , eat expensive food at some expensive restaurants but all of that in
return you have to sleep around with them. Where is your dignity there? You should
be at school doing something about your dreams, goals for the future. Is that
older man to marry you or he is just using you as his sex slave? Remember he
has a family at home, a wife and kids. Why are you turning yourself into a home
wrecker?
Women, whom we should be
calling our parents sometimes, are the one that pressure their kids into having
sugar daddies. We expect our parents to raise us to be the better people of tomorrow,
know how to respect others especially our life partners but how can that happen
when our parents are going out with our friends, guys our age and they call
them ‘’abo Ben Ten’’...where is self respect and dignity there?...Life can
amaze you...how do you live with that kodwa? When you pray what do you say to God?
Are you honest though?
Women you are stronger than
that. You can do more than that. You carry the world yes and you can run it. As
a writer I am not saying men must be treated somehow and am not saying women
are weak, but all am saying is women can do better. As a woman you are more powerful than words.
HEART BREAKER
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“Love is blind”, who ever
said that is so true. You are so good with your job. Thought that you loved me, well maybe I
guessed or just got blinded by love. You seemed to be caring, loving,
appreciating and you always listened or maybe you pretended to be. Here I
thought that I have found the one, my very own Mr. Perfect, someone whom I
would share the good and sad times with, I guess I was just imagining things. Love
at first, well I thought it was. Your smile looked so innocent. The words that
came right from your sweet lips as I thought they were, those words were so
real to me. Never thought it can be all lies. I guess lies are well planned
that is why they appear to be so convincing. I gave you my all, made sacrifices
for you, well for us. Made it a point that we are all happy at all times. I did
not hear any words that were spoken by others but only heard yours and so believed
them. I thought I was everything you wanted in your life; I guess I was not
even close to be. Did I look desperate? Maybe you took advantage of that. Is this
some kind of revenge or history just reaping itself? Feeling cursed. Feels like
one of those victims. I have never thought that this could also happen to me.
Am even thinking that maybe I am in some dream. I can’t even cry or feel sad
but only to think about it. I guess such is life part of the learning curves. You
played a very good game, made one a fool so you can smile about it or make it a
joke or something, yey you have won. Whatever you where trying to prove then
you did it and you made it. Now that I have been played, I am scared to love
again. Not all men are the same but you will never know. You broke a heart of
an innocent heart that has hope, goals, dreams and much love to give. Is this
the part that I say I will never love again??I am stronger than that; you just
chose the wrong chick to mess up with. Signed Miss Masina.
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