IT HURTS

Isn't it funny how the memories you cherish before a breakup can become your worst enemies afterwards? The thoughts you loved to think about, the memories you wanted to hold up to the light and view from every angle--it suddenly seems a lot safer to lock them in a box, far from the light of day and throw away the key. It's not an act of bitterness. It's an act if self-preservation. It's not always a bad idea to stay behind the window and look out at life instead, is it?-Ally Condie
The other confusing part is that when people break up they turn to think that it was the biggest mistake to date the person . Suddenly they start to ask themselves what is it that they were seeing in that person? like really now? why ask that question after so long? huh you did not notice anything wrong about them all along? but now that you are no longer together, you can  see all the wrongs that he has.. mhm how clever and sweet of you boo boo.
stupidity starts in that way. love is love and when is over it is over. either you can fix it or not. (sa pala sa leswa)..Move on he or she has already moved on too lala. Going crazy writing about then on social networks about how you regret dating them and how you where doing a favour, eish lala that's stooping low hey. GROW UP ALREADY.