SO MUCH HATE YET SO MUCH LOVE

SO MUCH HATE YET SO MUCH LOVE

BY Rebecca Masina

We do things then we regret doing them. We forget that we did them with love, so much love that we were not thinking about the outcomes of them. Have you ever done something with so much love then later regret doing it?  Like giving a hand to someone and they throw it back at you without a thank you. Such what do you about them? Let them pass? Mmhm your choice.

Speaking of choices, have you thought about what you did last night? Was it good, bad? Did it benefit you or the next person? Well sometimes if not every time, we young stars turn to make decision that will only benefit us and not think about the outcome of them until it is late and there is nothing one can do about them. It is not easy to live with regrets, to live with the ‘what if’s’. Those are the mistakes or choices we made and have to live with them and learn how to make better choices next time, it is a learning curve.
Time is precious and how you utilise it is also important. Turning back isn’t an option but fixing whatever that has been broken can be the only option to recovery. Not everything in life will be smooth sailing; well even the rich can confirm that one. Seek help where possible. No one is allowed to judge you as we all make mistakes in life. Not every right way will be right.

In life we learn by numbers!

 

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THE CLOSER YOU CAN GET

THE CLOSER YOU CAN GET

By Rebecca Masina

Have you ever got that feeling that you cannot describe or turn it into an action? Is it a good feeling or a bad feeling? Well such is life, sometimes is hard to explain it. That moment when you are happy and you cannot contain it, what do you do? In life we learn and we teach. We might not see it like that but hey it is what is happening. We learn everyday and somehow it happens that we teach without noticing that we are doing so.

To all my friends who got married/engaged this year congratulations. I mean even those that manage to take other peoples better halves. Well its life right? We are all blessed in different ways. Have you noticed that moment when you have been with your partner for almost a decade and hoping that one day they will wife you, then it happens that you fight or break up due to some reasonable reasons  or not, then they move on to the next person then a few months later you hear they are getting married. THE CLOSER YOU CAN GET. After all the sweats you went through, I wonder what is next after that. Does that mean you were not what they call marriage type or something else?

It is not like we are having doubts that you can or will not last in your marriage but don’t you think it is too early especially when you know you haven’t done anything with your life? Or ist that you will see when you get there? ‘’Yeah our parents also got married at a younger age and they lasted’’. But are you OUR PARENTS? THE CLOSER YOU CAN GET.

In this century nothing is ever the same. Today it happens to never be the same as yesterday. Of course it is a different day and time.

YOU DONT KNOW ME

YOU DONT KNOW ME

By Rebecca Masina

Look I am not in love with you because of your money or any other materialistic things, but I am with you because kao rata nothing more. Wait if you think I am here because of you riches then really, you do not know me at all. You go all around listening to every mouth that stops you and tells you that ‘cheese boy lalela, Kedibone ogo ratela tshelete ya hao’. Then you believe them and start acting weird towards me. Really? Like really?

Last I checked you are the one who came up to me and proposed. Did I ask you if you are loaded or not? Well let me tell you and you shall remember this. Not everyone will appreciate the good that you have. They will always try to run it down for their own benefits. One day I will be gone and you will be looking for me saying ‘nkebe’. We have been together for 6 years now and you only realise that I am after your riches? Ntse rewa re ema together now that’s all forgotten. I practically made you who you are today and that’s how you thank me.

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Ao come December you are nowhere to be found. You have a new number, a new girlfriend for December, you don’t sleep at home. You are always out. I guess you know me only ‘ge tlala e ephile maatla’. This is not a complaint but I am just letting you know that what you saw it is what you going to reap. January to November you know me as I am the one looking after you as if I am your parents or your bank account manager.

Come December because you now have money and bonuses you do not know me, thinking that I want your money. Well congratulations, have fun and come January as always I will be there not because of anything but only because kao rata and nothing more.

 

LOVE VERSUS BROKENESS

By Rebecca Masina

What you have today it is what it is used to measure love in this century. Nowadays it is said that where there is no money there is no love. Mhmm how true is that? When you love shouldn’t that be because of the heart and not money? So does this mean all broke people do not deserve to be loved because of their financial status? Are we all born lucky and blessed? The answer to that is yes but we are all unique, which makes us lucky and blessed in different ways. Life needs to be balanced. We cannot be all financially stable.

What was love before money mattered? Why do we need money in relationships? Or maybe love is money. One should love regardless of money or employment. Most of the people say that dating someone who doesn’t have an income it is not easy and for them it is not acceptable as the partner will rely/depend on them with everything married or not.

While a small percentage of interviewed people say it is not a big deal as long the person remains true and faithful to them and can also keep them happy. All they want is their love and affection nothing beyond that. With all that then there’s no way that money will be a problem as long as they also try to do something with their lives not just sitting at home and expecting to be spoon fed every day. Love is everything then all the materials and money they are just a bonus to them.

What has this world come to? So a good relationship is defined by money these days. No money, no car, no house means one does not deserve to be loved. Not everyone will reach their dreams in time but only God decides when to bless us all. Poor people have to go around stealing money and cars in other to receive love from the ones they love and want to be with. What happens after the money, cars and flashy things have gone? Does the love also vanish and end along with the money/material?

Love is something precious and needs no extra ingredients to add on in order to be special. On its own it is special.

 

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