RESPONSIBLE ROLE PLAYERS
By Rebecca Masina
Every kid would like to grow
knowing both their parents and also to get both their love. This nowadays not
everyone can be a parent. Yes you can have kids but not take responsibilities
for them. It is always said that guys don’t care about being parents and that
it is a job of a women to take care of the kids. That might be right but mind you the kids
where not only made by one person but two. So as I say both parents are
responsible for growing and supporting the kids.
Life is hard. You would even
thin that this is the end of the world.
With things that are happening in this life haibo it’s hard to tell some
things. People love each other so dearly that they even promise each other
trains on a tar road. Come pregnancy one has to run away. Huh! How right is
that?
Oh kana its women’s month
neh!! Guess what? Not all women with or without kids can take care or
responsibilities of their children or their siblings. Ngwana o hodiswa ke
sechaba, but this days you will hear them saying “ase ngwana waka”. We praise
women so bad that we forget that they are not all innocent. Mosadi otshwara
thipa ka bogaleng, mara nou so, you will hear and see babies being abandoned
some found dead as fetus in dustbins. What kind of a woman does that? That is
taking down the pride of all women around the world.
Clinics are made for a
reason. Yeah those nurses might be rude and all but it is your life after all.
Take responsibility for it and stop killing innocent souls.
We as women turn to give men
wrong names and insult them hence some turn to give up when it comes to
supporting their kids. Not every guy will run away from their responsibility
but we as women we push them away. There
are a lot of guys out there that would love to be part of their children’s life
but because of their situations they are denied access to them. Then later they
name and shame them of not being responsible for their actions.
Guys out there do hustle.
You loved him from the beginning knowing that he has nothing but today you have
a kid with him you deny him access to see his kid just because “ke malambane”
really now? When the kid grows and asks for his/her father you tell him/her
that they abandoned him/her. Haibo mosadi keng nah?
BIG UPS TO ALL RESPONSIBLE
FATHERS OUT THERE.
