HELLO CHEATERS


CHEATERS

BY Rebecca Masina

No woman deserves to be treated like second class, especially the mother of your kids. Be of you are still together or not. Imagine if someone was to treat your mother or your sister like second class, how would you feel about that?
Treat her like the queen she was when you first met her and lied to her that you love her and promised her the world. You told her she is your everything, but today you are cheating on her as if she does not exist. You even do it in front of her to show her how proud you are about what you are doing.

Look she will stay and keep trying to get you back because she loves you and she needs her kids to grow up knowing their father. “O tshwara thipa ka bogaleng byale kage mosadi aswanetse kego dira”. You taking her efforts for granted and the worst part of it is that you are physically and emotionally abusing her.
Do you know how hard it is to keep calm and let things be? Do you know how hard it is to tolerate the things you man do? We get hurt and we heal ourselves because of the love we have for you yet you still find cheating as an achievement.

Ore monna ke thari wa naba? Hebanna! Did she sign for that? Remember you told her that she’s the only women in your life? Remember you told her you are a one women man? What is all that? Keng neo mo shayashaya so that she will agree to everything you say? Tjo osehlogo shem sies arg

Tomorrow you will bring sickness in the house and next minute you will be blaming her saying she’s the one who brought the sickness when you know very well she has been loyal to you all the time and you are the one who messed up. Cheating never brought good things into a relationship. If you are not happy then set her free.

Why don’t you let her go? Every time she tries to leave you threaten her and you even promise to change but that’s all a lie. What if someone did all that to your own blood? What are you teaching your kids? Your siblings? Keng ke setso sabo lena sere byao?
What is it that she lacks, that makes you to go outside and look for it? Can’t you sit down and talk to her? I doubt what you do is what real man do.
If she’s truly our women then treat her with respect or let her leave.
She deserves better than that.
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