HURT
BY Rebecca Masina
So many people are being
hurt and they do not talk much about it, or they just chose not to talk about
it because of fear from those that hurt them and from the public that will
judge them. Being hurt does not have to be physically only, there are many ways
that one can get hurt. The ones we love seem to be the ones that take the cake
on hurting us. The ones that we trust and have our hopes on, seem to be the
ones that take away our pride, joy and happiness.
Talking about your hurt to
someone or other people can be helpful in terms of finding a healing or helping
others. We give our hearts with the thought that they will be taken care of and
not destroyed or abused. “Earlier I was listening to Metro FM ...Ask a men... there was a guy who called
and asked for advise with his girlfriend of three years whose been cheating on
him and still is cheating at the same time she got married to someone whilst
seeing that guy. The lady has a six year old child which the guy takes care of
besides the fact that the child is not his. So apparently the lady keeps coming
back and the guy keeps forgiving her, but still the lady continues to cheat”.
This only shows that we as people do not appreciate the little that others are
trying to show and give us.
Where we seem to love it is
mostly said it is where we are not loved. We give our all but they still find a
way to hurt us. We give too much that when we are getting hurt we find it hard
to let go. Which will be the best way and the best way to save ourselves from
hurt? Move on, there are people out there who will appreciate you more and give
the same or even more percentage of love, respect and communication than what
you are getting. Time heals so they say. Trying to move on is not simple but
it’s the best way of healing. You are not meant to be hurt. Everyone deserves what’s
best for their lives.
Let love rule not hurt.
Others are abused physically and emotionally but still they hang on thinking
that the situation will change but the honest truth is we all know a leopard
will never change its spots.
Work on yourself. Figure out
who you are and what you are about. Know your story. Don’t be afraid to ask.
Believe in your abilities. The future is your and not theirs.



