HURT

BY Rebecca Masina

So many people are being hurt and they do not talk much about it, or they just chose not to talk about it because of fear from those that hurt them and from the public that will judge them. Being hurt does not have to be physically only, there are many ways that one can get hurt. The ones we love seem to be the ones that take the cake on hurting us. The ones that we trust and have our hopes on, seem to be the ones that take away our pride, joy and happiness.

Talking about your hurt to someone or other people can be helpful in terms of finding a healing or helping others. We give our hearts with the thought that they will be taken care of and not destroyed or abused. “Earlier I was listening to Metro FM  ...Ask a men... there was a guy who called and asked for advise with his girlfriend of three years whose been cheating on him and still is cheating at the same time she got married to someone whilst seeing that guy. The lady has a six year old child which the guy takes care of besides the fact that the child is not his. So apparently the lady keeps coming back and the guy keeps forgiving her, but still the lady continues to cheat”. This only shows that we as people do not appreciate the little that others are trying to show and give us.

Where we seem to love it is mostly said it is where we are not loved. We give our all but they still find a way to hurt us. We give too much that when we are getting hurt we find it hard to let go. Which will be the best way and the best way to save ourselves from hurt? Move on, there are people out there who will appreciate you more and give the same or even more percentage of love, respect and communication than what you are getting. Time heals so they say. Trying to move on is not simple but it’s the best way of healing. You are not meant to be hurt. Everyone deserves what’s best for their lives.

Let love rule not hurt. Others are abused physically and emotionally but still they hang on thinking that the situation will change but the honest truth is we all know a leopard will never change its spots.

Work on yourself. Figure out who you are and what you are about. Know your story. Don’t be afraid to ask. Believe in your abilities. The future is your and not theirs.