YOU CANT KEEP A MAN BY HAVING HIS CHILD

Girl listen you can’t keep a man by having a kid with him. “Mmapelo oja serati”. If you not the one he loves then it’s a waste to have a baby with him let alone to plan the future with him. You are simply wasting time. “Otsamaya ntse ona le bana ba hae”. Anyways does this mean that whenever you are in a relationship and that person wants to leave, you are going to have his baby? How many kids are you going to have with different fathers? Well that’s not life at all.

Are you that desperate? Just because he earn millions and lives in an expensive apartment and treats you right, that doesn’t mean he’s yours and that doesn’t mean you should have his baby so that he can stay with you forever. “Se sesa feleng sea hlola”. Everything has its beginning and ending. He might have promised you heaven and earth but if he doesn’t love you or want you, then those promises will never be fulfilled. No love is worth forcing. That is total obsession.

When he says he wants to leave, feel free to let him leave. It’s no use to fight for a relationship to work whilst it is only one person trying and another one not even showing an effort. Well we know love is something else and it can make one to do strange things. Just so you know you simply cannot keep a man by having his kid. That is more like a threat to force him to love you. When love is gone its gone sweets, it won’t come back unless by some sort of miracle. There's more of how to keep a man but not with a baby.

Learn to let go. Yeah yeah we know it is hard but the sooner you realise you are not loved the better. There might not be another guy like him but I am sure there’s one whose more than him. You deserve better.

MGOSI

I always smile, make jokes, laugh at all times and I make sure that everybody who is around me is always happy. As long as I see everyone happy and smiling, and knowing that I am the reason behind that, then I know my heart is at peace and my God is watching over me and blessing me with more love to give.

Behind all the great things that I do, the love and respect that I give back to everyone, there is actually a brutally broken heart. I am a quiet person, whom enjoys life and taking it easy at all times and give thanks to the Lord at all times. Good or bad I always pray to God to give me strength to live to see more years and to be able to achieve my goals and dreams.
We all have those bad days, where your heart is being played with. Well I’ve never thought that I will allow myself to be heartbroken. I always thought that those who get their hearts broken are the weak hearted. Don’t get me wrong I am strong young lady and I stand my ground if I want something I make sure that is of goodness to my life and won’t hurt the ones around me.

I am a crazy person yet I never go wild. I am a risk taker yet I play it safe at all times. But there is this one thing called love. Damn that word is so beautiful and can do a lot yet people turn to play with it and torture the hearts of the innocents. Mh well here is my story.

When I love, I love so badly. I try by all means to give it my best. I believe with honesty, trust, comfort and communication there’s nothing that can break a relationship with those. But lies, deceit never grew a relationship. No relationship ever lasted with that. I loved and gave it my all and told myself that this is it. No more games and no more lies. Here I am to stay. Little did I know that my so called boyfriend (askere ka nako eo reba bitsa bo HUBBY lol) was in love with someone and that someone was not me. Lol and girl is awesome and has the looks but not the brains. So since well am literate I think I was a bit of job to handle.

Yoh guy knew how to treat his lady that even if you were to be told that he is cheating you wouldn’t believe it or you can see that he is cheating or flirting yet you still refuse to see the truth.  Yep that was me Blinded by love. All the signs were there it was just me being in denial. It hurts to love where you are not loved. Most hurting thing is that we love were we are not loved and reject where we are truly loved.

It wasn’t about the money or the material but only love. Yet the name was put into mud and stomped.  Ow or maybe uz’thandela ama bencane mmm as u call them.

always happy..thanks to the one who messed up now I got the right one *dead* 

To think that the lady being cheated with is only five (5) years younger.lol yeah I also thought that too (rape), hahahha am joking. Did not even finish school; she dropped out of high school.  Innocent hearts are always the ones that get hurt. There’s more to the story but cannot write about it. A leopard will never change its spots. Lesson learnt.

THAT ONE GUY “KE BHARI”

Every time you fall in love with a guy, there will always be another guy telling you that “o jola le bhari”. Am I lying? Anyways what makes him to think that he’s the right guy for you because the other one “ke bhari”?. If the guy “ke bhari” then what are you? Clever? Shame poor you. Well I’ve met a lot of guys telling me that one lame line. You will find out the person telling you that your guy “ke bhari” doesn’t even bath let alone have dreams and goals to archive something in their lives. People need to grow up really. If you are that one guy that does that then you really need help. It’s simple “GET A LIFE”.

Excuse me “clever” you simply not my type. You see that “bhari”? Yeah that’s my type. Ere nna le bhari yaka reje bo bhari ba rena ka kgotso.  I love and am proud to say am happy le bhari yaka, wena go look for di clever. I love di bhari vele, askere wena o clever otla nhlalefela, so nope am good le bhari yaka. Life is amazing hey. Don’t let them fool you or play you.  Especially di “clever”. Haa sies if you that kind of a person.

In fact that bhari “HE SPINS MY WORLD AROUND”!

MY MOM, MY WORLD!

O ke waka and for that am very much thankful for having her in my life. Not everybody has the chance and moment to be with their mothers. Some lost theirs at an early age and so on. “God please protect my mother at all times, Amen”. Yoh I don’t have words for my mom. She’s simply the world, the best, she’s amazing. I’ve always given her hard times but she still stood there by me.

She’s a quiet, down to earth woman. The heart that she has WOW... it’s amazing. I would like to believe that I am where I am today because of her. I’ve got love, respect from her. She taught me a lot. “Ha Modimo amo okeletse matsatsi aho phela, mahlogonolo le bohlale”. She one in a million. Hlompho le boikokobetso I got it from her.

I always thank God for making her my mother. I think out of the four children she has, I am the one who gives her the worst headache ever, but it’s only out of love. She understands lol. Best moments with her. I would steal her car to school and she would shout at me and seconds after laugh. Hehehe oh oh ho did I say I just turned 21? Ow yeah ow yeah I did. Ahahahhahaha lol I just shut all the haters big mouths. No babies but respect for her. Hahaha I’ve made her the proudest mother ever. Ola mama waka!!! Lol I love my mom people. I just don’t know how to express the feeling. Will always keep the love and respect for her.

One promise I can’t keep though “I can’t stop driving her car, I like it”, and playing deep house music louder at night lol will always fight about that but out of love. People learn to love, honour and respect your parents while they still alive. Hlompha mmaho le ntate wa hao hore matsatsi a hao a bophelo atle a ate.

MOMMY, RIBSY LOVES YOU ALWAYS!