Girl listen you can’t keep a man by having a kid with him.
“Mmapelo oja serati”. If you not the one he loves then it’s a waste to have a
baby with him let alone to plan the future with him. You are simply wasting
time. “Otsamaya ntse ona le bana ba hae”. Anyways does this mean that whenever you
are in a relationship and that person wants to leave, you are going to have his
baby? How many kids are you going to have with different fathers? Well that’s
not life at all.
Are you that desperate? Just because he earn millions and
lives in an expensive apartment and treats you right, that doesn’t mean he’s
yours and that doesn’t mean you should have his baby so that he can stay with
you forever. “Se sesa feleng sea hlola”. Everything has its beginning and
ending. He might have promised you heaven and earth but if he doesn’t love you
or want you, then those promises will never be fulfilled. No love is worth
forcing. That is total obsession.
When he says he wants to leave, feel free to let him leave. It’s
no use to fight for a relationship to work whilst it is only one person trying
and another one not even showing an effort. Well we know love is something else
and it can make one to do strange things. Just so you know you simply cannot
keep a man by having his kid. That is more like a threat to force him to love
you. When love is gone its gone sweets, it won’t come back unless by some sort
of miracle. There's more of how to keep a man but not with a baby.
Learn to let go. Yeah yeah we know it is hard but the sooner
you realise you are not loved the better. There might not be another guy like
him but I am sure there’s one whose more than him. You deserve better.
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