THE GIFT OF GIVING

It is almost time for the festive season. The time for spending and having good times with family and friends.

In these times do you ever think of those that don’t have anything to eat, drink and dress? It is heartbreaking to see someone suffering at the same time looking at you whilst you are having fun. Where’s the love? Can’t we share?
Out there, there are Non Governmental Organisations that helps people from all over the world with homes, food and better life. Those organisations are everywhere. Spread love and help them know how it is to be loved and appreciated mostly how it is to have fun once in a while. Most of the people have lost their families, homes due to fire or crucial accidents. They ran from their families due to abuse.
Give them love, even if it is not love but whatever you give them make sure it comes from the heart. That person will forever cherish that moment and thank you. Have you seen that most of the people who are thankful for the life that they are given are those that don’t have anything in life?
The gift of giving back is when you open your heart and give the love to those that need it. It doesn’t have to be materialistic. There more you give back the more the Blessings from God come.  Give help to anyone, it can be your neighbour or a stranger. God gave you the power to give back, use it.
This time have the heart of giving and make someone else life different. Make someone smile once in a while. Give that street kid a blanket. Show them where they can go for safety and better life. Dress that kid to school. Do anything that can change their perspective view of the world. Give them hope.
If you don’t know which organisation you can make donations to or to contact, then ask around or email me at rebecccateffo@gmail.com or call me on 0745696220.

Make someone’s life a better one, change their suicidal thinking.

YOU CANT KEEP A MAN BY HAVING HIS CHILD

Girl listen you can’t keep a man by having a kid with him. “Mmapelo oja serati”. If you not the one he loves then it’s a waste to have a baby with him let alone to plan the future with him. You are simply wasting time. “Otsamaya ntse ona le bana ba hae”. Anyways does this mean that whenever you are in a relationship and that person wants to leave, you are going to have his baby? How many kids are you going to have with different fathers? Well that’s not life at all.

Are you that desperate? Just because he earn millions and lives in an expensive apartment and treats you right, that doesn’t mean he’s yours and that doesn’t mean you should have his baby so that he can stay with you forever. “Se sesa feleng sea hlola”. Everything has its beginning and ending. He might have promised you heaven and earth but if he doesn’t love you or want you, then those promises will never be fulfilled. No love is worth forcing. That is total obsession.

When he says he wants to leave, feel free to let him leave. It’s no use to fight for a relationship to work whilst it is only one person trying and another one not even showing an effort. Well we know love is something else and it can make one to do strange things. Just so you know you simply cannot keep a man by having his kid. That is more like a threat to force him to love you. When love is gone its gone sweets, it won’t come back unless by some sort of miracle. There's more of how to keep a man but not with a baby.

Learn to let go. Yeah yeah we know it is hard but the sooner you realise you are not loved the better. There might not be another guy like him but I am sure there’s one whose more than him. You deserve better.

MGOSI

I always smile, make jokes, laugh at all times and I make sure that everybody who is around me is always happy. As long as I see everyone happy and smiling, and knowing that I am the reason behind that, then I know my heart is at peace and my God is watching over me and blessing me with more love to give.

Behind all the great things that I do, the love and respect that I give back to everyone, there is actually a brutally broken heart. I am a quiet person, whom enjoys life and taking it easy at all times and give thanks to the Lord at all times. Good or bad I always pray to God to give me strength to live to see more years and to be able to achieve my goals and dreams.
We all have those bad days, where your heart is being played with. Well I’ve never thought that I will allow myself to be heartbroken. I always thought that those who get their hearts broken are the weak hearted. Don’t get me wrong I am strong young lady and I stand my ground if I want something I make sure that is of goodness to my life and won’t hurt the ones around me.

I am a crazy person yet I never go wild. I am a risk taker yet I play it safe at all times. But there is this one thing called love. Damn that word is so beautiful and can do a lot yet people turn to play with it and torture the hearts of the innocents. Mh well here is my story.

When I love, I love so badly. I try by all means to give it my best. I believe with honesty, trust, comfort and communication there’s nothing that can break a relationship with those. But lies, deceit never grew a relationship. No relationship ever lasted with that. I loved and gave it my all and told myself that this is it. No more games and no more lies. Here I am to stay. Little did I know that my so called boyfriend (askere ka nako eo reba bitsa bo HUBBY lol) was in love with someone and that someone was not me. Lol and girl is awesome and has the looks but not the brains. So since well am literate I think I was a bit of job to handle.

Yoh guy knew how to treat his lady that even if you were to be told that he is cheating you wouldn’t believe it or you can see that he is cheating or flirting yet you still refuse to see the truth.  Yep that was me Blinded by love. All the signs were there it was just me being in denial. It hurts to love where you are not loved. Most hurting thing is that we love were we are not loved and reject where we are truly loved.

It wasn’t about the money or the material but only love. Yet the name was put into mud and stomped.  Ow or maybe uz’thandela ama bencane mmm as u call them.

always happy..thanks to the one who messed up now I got the right one *dead* 

To think that the lady being cheated with is only five (5) years younger.lol yeah I also thought that too (rape), hahahha am joking. Did not even finish school; she dropped out of high school.  Innocent hearts are always the ones that get hurt. There’s more to the story but cannot write about it. A leopard will never change its spots. Lesson learnt.

THAT ONE GUY “KE BHARI”

Every time you fall in love with a guy, there will always be another guy telling you that “o jola le bhari”. Am I lying? Anyways what makes him to think that he’s the right guy for you because the other one “ke bhari”?. If the guy “ke bhari” then what are you? Clever? Shame poor you. Well I’ve met a lot of guys telling me that one lame line. You will find out the person telling you that your guy “ke bhari” doesn’t even bath let alone have dreams and goals to archive something in their lives. People need to grow up really. If you are that one guy that does that then you really need help. It’s simple “GET A LIFE”.

Excuse me “clever” you simply not my type. You see that “bhari”? Yeah that’s my type. Ere nna le bhari yaka reje bo bhari ba rena ka kgotso.  I love and am proud to say am happy le bhari yaka, wena go look for di clever. I love di bhari vele, askere wena o clever otla nhlalefela, so nope am good le bhari yaka. Life is amazing hey. Don’t let them fool you or play you.  Especially di “clever”. Haa sies if you that kind of a person.

In fact that bhari “HE SPINS MY WORLD AROUND”!

MY MOM, MY WORLD!

O ke waka and for that am very much thankful for having her in my life. Not everybody has the chance and moment to be with their mothers. Some lost theirs at an early age and so on. “God please protect my mother at all times, Amen”. Yoh I don’t have words for my mom. She’s simply the world, the best, she’s amazing. I’ve always given her hard times but she still stood there by me.

She’s a quiet, down to earth woman. The heart that she has WOW... it’s amazing. I would like to believe that I am where I am today because of her. I’ve got love, respect from her. She taught me a lot. “Ha Modimo amo okeletse matsatsi aho phela, mahlogonolo le bohlale”. She one in a million. Hlompho le boikokobetso I got it from her.

I always thank God for making her my mother. I think out of the four children she has, I am the one who gives her the worst headache ever, but it’s only out of love. She understands lol. Best moments with her. I would steal her car to school and she would shout at me and seconds after laugh. Hehehe oh oh ho did I say I just turned 21? Ow yeah ow yeah I did. Ahahahhahaha lol I just shut all the haters big mouths. No babies but respect for her. Hahaha I’ve made her the proudest mother ever. Ola mama waka!!! Lol I love my mom people. I just don’t know how to express the feeling. Will always keep the love and respect for her.

One promise I can’t keep though “I can’t stop driving her car, I like it”, and playing deep house music louder at night lol will always fight about that but out of love. People learn to love, honour and respect your parents while they still alive. Hlompha mmaho le ntate wa hao hore matsatsi a hao a bophelo atle a ate.

MOMMY, RIBSY LOVES YOU ALWAYS!

IS AGE AN OBSTACLE TO LOVE

Does age matter when it comes to love/relationships?.For some, dating someone who is older or younger is not out of the question. Some girls find older man more attractive, mature and stable.  Wena what kind of a better half would you like to have? Lol this I can’t wait to see the replies. Love is overrated these days.  There is no true love these days. If it is there then, it’s rare. Life is a bit rough out there. It’s quiet interesting how older men like younger women and younger women prefer older women.

Here comes the new trend....... abo maBen10 lol *deathbylaughter* so this is the in thing. A good looking lady with everything that she wants then decides to lose her mind and date a guy who is 10 to 15 years younger than her. What is happening to this world? Well as for me I can’t wait for the new in thing after Ben10’s.

 Ok so age doesn’t matter when it comes to love, as long as you guys love and support each other? Yoh kana what are your parents or family saying about that? Ooooh lol you don’t care right? Thought so too.  You still keep each other a secret. Till when? Lol when he divorces his wife and leaves his children? Or when she decides to marry you and wena le ben10 you lie to your parents? Lol we are watching....

After all you the master of your own life. Make the right choice      

MY OWN VIEW, WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Do you believe in love at first site? Hahaha and soul mates? You must be joking right?. I honestly do not believe in such but when it happens, it’s said one can feel it in their hearts. As @Miss Masina I find it hard to tell if I did fell in love at first site lol tough... things we go through in life though. Funny enough one can believe that love is powerful and when you find it, you would never want to stop loving. Well can I get someone whom fell in love at first site five years ago and that person is the same age as me, to tell me that even today it still feels like it was the first day? NO that only used to happen to our parents and grandparents because by then they were not misusing the word.  Hee bathong!!! Am not being stereotypical, but am only asking. I asked one lady who replied to me and said “@Miss Masina just because you have never met someone whom you really like or experienced true love, it doesn’t mean love at first site does not exist. It actually does exist”. Lol for her own information... love is just overrated to me and am taking it easy in that department *hides*. Once beaten twice as shy. Am sure you get my drift akere motho wa motho o bamo jelang? *death by laughter*.

With our generation, these days it is not easy to believe in a words like”love”. Many misuse it. It has lost its true meaning. These days when you agree to love it means you agree to being played, beaten, and bragged on, sex and booze...any objections? Thought as much... ebile batho ba jelwa this days... wena o busy working hard to make a living for both you and your partner and yena o busy ka dilo tse snax...then you come to me ka di “love at first site” mxm ska mbora lol nna ketlao bolella taba tsa hao... he banna there we go again... where have u heard me saying nna am perfect? Lol wa bona wa thoma? Well let’s put things into perspective, I am not perfect, yet I strive for perfection, just not in a desperate way like wena *oops sorry* kera someone not wena.

Tip: enjoy life responsibly and be careful sweets fact is #WA JELWA

MAKE SOMEONES LIFE WORTH LIVING

Not all of us have access to the fancy life. Some of us long to just have a glimpse of it, taste of it. Life ain't easy. Not all of us can make it to the big world and get to experience the good life. It is tough out there. One goes to the fancy schools, fancy shopping malls and eats and dress fancy while some of us have to hustle to make it to the top.
ow well have you once thought about those who don't even own a pair of school shoes, They go to school bare footed, in a week they only have access to food once. Can we work together to help these people?Can you make a difference in life and make someone to have hope and faith in their lives because of you? life is precious but do not enjoy it on your own, help others to have and live the same life as you.
it hurts me to see people with advantages to the good life but yet they waste it while out there, there are people who need that chance so bad.

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WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT MEN/WOMEN?

What is it that one has to do to prove that you have a great men/women by your side? huh... This days you cannot stay faithful to your better half, what have they done? if you cant be that faithful then just let them go, let them go because they deserve better than that. there is someone out there who can love them better than you can. I believe one decides to get someone from outside it means that they don't love the ones they have or they have gone out of love so the other better half has to know and be able to move on with their lives. the feeling of knowing that you are being cheated on its a very painful feeling, especially if you are really in love with the person. well in this day and age I personally think cheaters are very dump, very lost. they are a waste of space in this world of ours. I mean there are diseases out there yet they give a blind eye to all of this. Those one night stands will cost you your whole life and you are getting innocent person into your troubles. where's dignity and respect in that? haibo some people need to grow up really
your better half tries by all means to keep you happy and do everything to keep the relationship healthy and going but yet you still go look for fantasy outside

I AM IN LOVE

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Am in love!! Lol did I just say that? Well what I meant was I am in love with myself. Hahaha yeah right I know that’s what you probably thought too right? You lie it’s not, you had your own thinking. You agree? I thought as much. Well as for me I am truly in love with myself, I love everything about me. I really do not give attention to people’s opinions about myself. I have learned that people will always talk whether you do good or not. I am highly happy with myself. I go through a lot and get hard challenges that sometimes make me to want to give up on life but yet I still motivate myself to push and go for Gold.

With the big heart that I have; Gosh the betrayals that I have experienced yet I still give back my love and respect to those that hurt it, because I know revenge won’t award me with anything that is meaningful to life. I still love with no limitations but I vowed to myself that if one betrays me I will love myself enough to let go and let God.  If you don’t love and appreciate yourself then who will? Life won’t always be sweet or smooth but one has to hold on and believe.

You won’t be happy until you learn to love yourself. Remember to include God in your life during the good and the bad times. Sometimes as people we come from backgrounds that are bad but that does not have to determine who you are, you can make a better life out of yourself. Respect is vital, patience is vital. Always dream big and do not just dream, but something out of that dream. Sleep knowing that today you have made a difference in your life. I love giving back to the community, when I see someone smiling and knowing that I am the reason behind that smile, and then I know I have made something out of my life.

I love my self…

Signed: Miss Masina